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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
4 points

I'm a 24 year old woman who stutters (severe-moderate) and I'm going to have to agree with what another poster stated -- I don't think stuttering is the (major) problem here. While I do think speec...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2015
1 points

I'm on page 18. I will give the rest of the book a read, but this is something I touched upon in December. Speech is automatic and that when we start thinking about it its when we block. I record v...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2015
2 points

That sounds a lot like how my impediment functions. My finely tuned strategies for speaking smoothly will purr along nicely, sometimes for weeks or months without me having to consciously think about ...

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postr/StutterJan 24, 2015
7 points

its all in your head

its all in your head this stutter shit is all mental real talk, for me anyway. If i dont think about it I'm golden. I just cant figure out how to get it out of my head. Everytime i do notice im fluent...

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postr/StutterJan 22, 2015
1 points

Digital versus IRL

Digital versus IRL Frequent lurker, first time poster. I'm 32 and like many of the folks here, have been stuttering for as long as I can remember. About a year ago I started sim racing on /r/iRacing ...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2015
1 points

Although I am basically a native English speaker, the stutter and stumbles makes me sound like some new foreigner. Wrong impression to strangers. I sometimes talk in my broken second language just t...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2015
1 points

Well, sure it's easy to quote mine and find things you disagree with. But even still, I think you missed the point of that statement. It's part of a rhetorical question that poses the question, "does...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2015
2 points

Reconditioning your entire method of speech is going to take a lot more than a few months. Don't be discouraged! You're developing some good habits. And yeah the, "You know"s and "Like"s, those are ...

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postr/StutterJan 8, 2015
5 points

Deliberately stuttering

Deliberately stuttering Has anyone just said F it and spoke freely so that they did deliberately stuttered? I tried this today and.....I spoke fluently. On the phone and at the bank. I stumbled wit...

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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2014
2 points

Im having a small laugh mostly based on the fact that "she is gonna be majorly embarrassed once she figure out i stutter" kind of thing. Not trying to hide anything...

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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2014
1 points

no need to laugh. i think many stutterers have a tendency to compound their problem with a bunch of escape/explanation/excuse maneuvers. that's not a good habit to have, because it can quickly become ...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2014
1 points

yes, this is about you - for the most part. it's not about you when you start generalizing outside of your own case. you're making a list about yourself, but for it to amount to something more solid,...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2014
1 points

>When it comes talking to people I believe it's all a mental game. Even though I consciously may think x person is not intimidating what so ever... my unconscious mind may think otherwise. It's rea...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2014
1 points

I think it's about time we, stutterers, stop being ashamed for something that isn't our fault....

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

Absolutely. To me it was about gaining confidence and overcoming my shyness through desensitization therapy. Though I did scripted acting first and learned that way. I have done some improv and gotten...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

This was hugely reassuring to read. I know being open about my stutter is something I should do, but it's just hard to really get to the point where I'm confortable saying i have one openly. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
2 points

I've worked with a few doctors now, at various points in their careers (med student, resident, fellow, attending) and in various specialties. A "pattern" I've noticed is that most physicians-in-train...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

i wouldn't use the term "subconscious", but yeah, i get what you're saying. i think it's different though, now that i think about it... i think it's about the wide sense of "empathy" - which takes us ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 30, 2014
14 points

I feel trapped in my own body

I feel trapped in my own body I've dealt with a stammer for as long as I can remember and I've rarely felt of it like this before, however I moved to university a month or so ago. Over text speech, I...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2014
1 points

Great points below! I just want to offer my two cents as someone who stutters too: First of all, I don't think there's anything "unprofessional" or "wrong" with simply stuttering. It doesn't make us ...

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