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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
2 points

Maybe so. I just feel like "acceptance" sounds like this sort of positive and closure-like term. It's not like stuttering is no longer a prevalent overhead, just because I've (purportedly) "accepted" ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
4 points

I think so, it is no longer an obstacle or an excuse to stay quiet, rather, my interpretation anyway, it seems to be like every other persons disfluencies. Like op, I usually hide my stutter and so pe...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
3 points

Hm, I'm not sure I "accept" it. Like, I stutter because I want to speak, but does that mean I'm "open"? I'd rather _not_ stutter, and every time something comes out that's _not_ stuttered, that feels ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
1 points

I like your way of thinking. I am rather open when it comes to activity, and I like to do most things, more or less. Right now I just want to have genuine, honest and sincere conversations with people...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
1 points

Of course. The last meetup I went to had a guy from eastern Europe, and another from Northern Africa. Since the hosts are Canadian we speak in English, but other than that, it's a pretty chill group. ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
1 points

I would love that. I have been trying to get in contact with stutterers where I live, but it's not going that good, well I haven't tried so hard though. I am up for a skype or hangout session, however...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2015
1 points

I always thought that when I don't think about it. I'm fine because there's no fear. I don't think about it at all and I only stutter in 5% of my interactions. You wouldn't even know unless I told you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2015
1 points

I'm not sure if I stutter because I am shy or I am shy because I stutter.

I'm not sure if I stutter because I am shy or I am shy because I stutter. when I am talking out loud to myself I don't stutter at all...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingExperiential AssociationSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2015
1 points

I just got tired of it. I got tired of being the victim; the fish going into the shark tank; the quivering sinner awaiting judgment by an all-mighty God. It's not an easy switch to make and my experie...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2015
2 points

You're right, but how did you get past the fearful mindset? The fear of stuttering is so much worse than stuttering itself, but im really struggling to get past the 'fear' mindset. When I feel confid...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2015
3 points

You can't live like this. You can't thrive with such a fearful mindset. Aren't you just over it by now? We're the same age, and I've done my share of presentations and I've fought against this mindset...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2015
4 points

I'm actually in college right now. I've considered registering with DSS (Disability Support Services, as it's called at my school), but haven't for a few reasons. First and foremost, I don't think th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2015
17 points

Psychology of stuttering

Psychology of stuttering I want to use this as a place where we, as people who stutter, can share thoughts about our relationship to our own stuttering. I'm 24, male, and I'm a moderate/severe stutter...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2015
1 points

Well I do know some excellent SLPs who are pws, but I think I know even more who aren't. And they totally get it. Oftentimes I think they get it better than me, so dont count them out. Being fluent is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2015
1 points

Yes, I'm sure you are absolutely right about the self-disclosure. Actually this is exactly what I've realized during the last weeks, I'm going through a big progress and change in my life right now. U...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

Between the ages of high school and now I was a covert stutterer (or at least I thought I was one). Since I'm now as open about it as I can be, I guess apart of me feels guilty not so much for being f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

*That was a typo. But this explanation still holds I think.* --- I shouldn't and that's the rub. I am just a person who happens to have a disconnect with the majority of people and the way they spea...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

I took a communications class this last semester and obviously having to do oral presentations forced me to be more open about my stutter. I wouldn't say that I usually advertise, as I firmly believe ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

Interesting. Do you usually present yourself as "a stutterer", and/or avoid doing stuff because "I stutter"? How do you imagine other stutterers go about their stuttering?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2015
7 points

Does anyone else...act? And find that they do not stutter?

Does anyone else...act? And find that they do not stutter? I have a someone severe stutter. Very often times I get blocks where I just can't spit the word out, and if I do get it out, I repeat it abou...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment+1 more