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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

Tbh I use it as my natural ice breaker, awkward silence? Say something and stutter badly while doing it boom both parties are laughing (hopefully) if not it does light up the mood a bit. I used to hid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

Yes! I started doing theater several years ago, though I never thought that it could become something that I could get really good at because of my stutter. I slowly discovered that "being in characte...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityRoles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

My partner disclosed in writing when we were online dating. It took about 2 months of them avoiding speaking to me, certain that the relationship would be over. It's a cute story from my perspective...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
6 points

A lot of PWS are covert stutters. They’re able to hide their stutter in everyday life by constantly substituting words or just being quiet and pretending to be introverted. I was a covert stutterer fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

I think thesolution would be more me not minding my stutter than finding someone who doesn't mind...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 18, 2025
10 points

How much has your stutter impacted your social skills?

How much has your stutter impacted your social skills? I wonder if more people can relate, but often when people talk to me my mind goes blank like i don't know what say back which usually leads to me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
1 points

Are you uncomfortable with yourself? That is, so long as you have control of your speech, you aren't comfortable with yourself?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

Seems sort of arbitrary to me? There are a million things we don't have control over, and speech can be one of those things. Working to accept the lack of control and find an understanding of how to...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
1 points

Ya I’m trying to be more confident in my stutter and not hide from it as much as...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

My therapist used to tell me “Stuttering is what stutterers do when they try not to stutter. “ I believe that....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

I definitely agree.. When I do self talk I don't stutter.. But when I see myself in mirror n talk, I stutter.. When I talk with new person or new situation.. Its all in head.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 16, 2025
10 points

Wearing a mask to "cover" your stutter

Wearing a mask to "cover" your stutter My girlfriend stutters - and since the pandemic wear masks became common - she wears one in public because she feels self-conscious when she stutters. When she g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
1 points

Okay they laughed and snickering..which's suck and not nice ....what's that enjoy you put? Are you on their side or our side?...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
postr/Stutter_remissionOct 14, 2025
1 points

Don’t chase fluency — identify and change what’s holding your speech back. Focus on your responses to the “inner judge” when you speak. Fluency should be automatic, so it's not something we manually do ourselves!

Don’t chase fluency — identify and change what’s holding your speech back. Focus on your responses to the “inner judge” when you speak. Fluency should be automatic, so it's not something we manually d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
3 points

yello I'll be honest. IMO, you're on a very good path right now. Acknowledging that you can't "delete" the stutter is a fundamental stage in the life of a stutterer. I can't speak on behalf of other...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
2 points

>just couldn't find many examples of kids that stutter and at the same time, don't stop talking. One big reason for this is because of stigma. If he's not shying away from speaking and expressing hi...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/Stutter_remissionOct 14, 2025
1 points

Discussion among clinicians: Fluency vs. Acceptance (2025)

Discussion among clinicians: Fluency vs. Acceptance (2025) **Charles Van Riper**: Decreasing sensitivity to stuttering is one side of the coin, and letting go of the struggle to avoid stuttering is th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
2 points

I am 42 year old female and have had a stutter my whole life. It's exhausting, but the best thing I did was start admitting it to people. My stutter has improved over the years drastically, but in the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2025
1 points

I had to turn myself into an entirely different person to conquer my stutter. I'm now an asshole and seen as arrogant. Anyone have a similar experience?...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 13, 2025
5 points

Awkward asf

Awkward asf So life is good lately (since i stopped caring about lots of things) I accepted my stutter and since then I started to be able to handle small conversations pretty well ofc sometimes I stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging