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postr/StutterMay 12, 2016
1 points

Should we as stutters rehearse converations in our minds that we might encounter in the future?

Should we as stutters rehearse converations in our minds that we might encounter in the future? This has been a very prominent habit of mine in past years. I put myself into a situation in my mind in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Preparation & RehearsalAnticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterMay 10, 2016
19 points

Shower Thought: I will never be able to say, "Did I stutter?" if someone were to question me.

Shower Thought: I will never be able to say, "Did I stutter?" if someone were to question me. One less way to be an ass because it would be ironic :(...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2016
1 points

These very brief interactions are probably the easiest type of thing to tackle, quickly. All I've found that I have to do, if I feel that I am about to stutter in a situation that's coming up... like ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2016
1 points

One thing I've found seems to work, although it's also common sense... is when you feel like you're going to stutter in a casual social situation which is coming up soon, you can center yourself in th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 5, 2016
5 points

Stuttered as a kid, and now it's back.

Stuttered as a kid, and now it's back. I had a stutter when I was a kid but grew out it of by the time I was in high school. For years, I had no problem with talking on the phone, job interviews, or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2016
2 points

Mate it's hard not to get depressed when speech / communication is letting you down - such a critical aspect of life. I have been in your situation, like it's not even worth communicating any more. I...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Sadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & PrideAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2016
3 points

I do the same. Since I am doing that, I can say my name fluently, but I am still very nervous when I know its going to happen because you never know, and saying your own name is the most embarrassing,...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2016
1 points

I sometimes start stuttering again if I believe myself to be in a context that will eventually involve listeners - like, recording something, or praciticing something to be spoken....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterApr 2, 2016
5 points

Promotions and the stress that comes with it.

Promotions and the stress that comes with it. Hey everyone, This is my first post in this subreddit. Much love. I've stuttered all my life and I just turned 29. It didn't really bother me until goin...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
1 points

Just stutter. It'll get better. It's all about confidence. I do the pre-sentence thing like you. I say "like" a lot before stuff or just "errr" kinda like I'm thinking. But it gets better. You just ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2016
1 points

I do the same. I know what I'm going to say then I end ups starting to stutter. I then go to a period of silence. I start to feel like an idiot, and I think others feel the same...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 21, 2016
13 points

And I thought job interviews were the worst part

And I thought job interviews were the worst part I thought I would never find a job. After dozens of interviews I was sure that the problem was my speech impediment, not the speech impediment itself, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2016
3 points

I think part of stuttering is all this extra overhead pertaining to our anticipation and perception of words. Many of us are easily able to discern another stutterer (however covert). We pay a lot of ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2016
1 points

Kinda but it's more of me watching a video and hearing some phrase that, as they said it, I can recognize as something I would block on. i.e. " I would just love to have some fresh air right now" I wo...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2016
8 points

Yes. When you hear someone say a word you are wanting to say, does it suddenly become 100 times easier? Like they've broken some sort of special seal?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMar 19, 2016
8 points

Can you hear someone say a word in context that you know you would block on?

Can you hear someone say a word in context that you know you would block on? Sometimes when I'm watching a video or talking with someone, I hear a word spoken in a context. I can "feel" that if I said...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterMar 10, 2016
22 points

That feeling of adrenaline after a presentation is amazing!

That feeling of adrenaline after a presentation is amazing! So I just gave this 5 minute technical presentation for my undergrad engineering course that I've been dreading really badly for a couple we...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringBlocks & Stoppages+2 more
postr/StutterMar 4, 2016
5 points

Just cannot do presentations

Just cannot do presentations Conversationally, I would say that I have a mild stutter. The moment I have to do a presentation my stutter amps up to moderate to severe. Whenever there is a possibility ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2016
2 points

You would *hope* it would be an easy thing to say, but it really isn't surprising. It's impossible to fall back on word substitution and there's a ton of anxiety and anticipation surrounding the poten...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2016
2 points

Any tips on how to stay cool during an interview?

Any tips on how to stay cool during an interview? I have an interview tomorrow morning and I think i'm ready, except for my fluency. It's pretty unpredictable (sometimes it's perfect, sometimes I can'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more