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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
1 points

stuttering has never been something’s I’ve thought about when applying for a job and I can promise you half the time coworkers won’t even notice it 😁 I work in pharmacy as a tech and I’m constantly h...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
2 points

Like with all disabilities you have to rely on the character of the other person you are interacting with, basically you are at their mercy. To make it worse a stutter is not a very visible or recogni...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
1 points

I know how it feels, I have the same thing, I have graduated and have a good job, you can do it. Keep going. At college I told my teachers about it and they let me do the presentations solo with just ...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

Just ask them what’s funny? I think it also helps to establish that you don’t want jokes made about it. For example, I crack a lot of jokes, many of which are at my expense. So people around me also...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
9 points

As a kid I told them to fuck off As an adult I tell them to fuck off One time a waitress made fun of my stutter and I get them fired. I don’t have no mercy or time for their BS 💀 They gone remembe...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
18 points

I know my experience differs from others, but I haven't been made fun of since the first year I was in the Army. When I was, I would stop talking even if I was mid word, and give them the *really?* lo...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
4 points

Well done on speaking up! Hopefully their phone calls are recorded so the owner can listen to the full conversation but, they might not have that set up if they’re a small business. It’s all about ho...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
6 points

I would email the owner of the business and make a formal complaint. That kind of behaviour towards anyone, especially a customer, is unacceptable and discriminatory. As whether they mock other peopl...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
5 points

I'm a systems admin/onsite IT for a manufacturing firm. My fluency used to be dogshit until I got a job answering phones for a helpdesk and the sink or swim environment really got me over it somehow....

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
9 points

Nah we got you man. Time to name and shame. If it happened to you, it couldve happened to all of us. Im amped to leave a 0 star review bc of their unprofessionalism and discrimination against a disabi...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
9 points

I work on the phone and experience this a lot. People are just thoughtless and ignorant. Over the years I’ve learnt to call people out on it, not be rude or even upset but politely let them know that ...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
6 points

Leave a scathing 1 star review on their Google listing. Also, send an email to the garage lodging a formal complaint about that person and stating that you're going to tell everyone you know to avoid...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

Just go and do it even if it means you'll get embarrassed in front of her family. It's better they know of these flaw of yours rather than later getting a rejection because her family found out you go...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2025
7 points

There is no control. Control is an illusion. I disclose my stutter before every single presentation so that they know what they are going to see and hear.......this brings down the audiences level ...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
2 points

quick question. do doctors have bosses or someone to report to? if so, how do you deal with bosses who try to "save" you from speaking, except you didn't ask for that. and how do you respond to peopl...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
4 points

I’ve always disclosed my stutter to all hiring managers. Honesty is the best policy. I’ve landed every job I’ve gone for. I just reassure them that interviews tend to exacerbate my stutter and it in n...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
10 points

I have disclosed that I stutter in every interview. I stutter more if I try to hide it and I don't want to work with people who think it is a problem. "I have a stutter, i might pause while speaking...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
13 points

So at the start of any interview, I say “also I do have a stutter, you don’t need to worry but I will pause or get stuck on some words. I would just appreciate some patience with me during this inter...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
2 points

Responding to rudeness with argument means stooping to their level. You are actually doing the right thing by walking away and refusing to deal with their negative mindset. You are actually empowering...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
5 points

I’m a management consultant (Economist by profession) and have to talk to people day in and day out. Some days with severe stutter, some days with a few bumps in the road. It’s a challange but I find ...

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