There is no control. Control is an illusion. I disclose my stutter before every single presentation so that they know what they are going to see and hear.......this brings down the audiences level of anxiety. And for ME, Im only speaking for myself, I ask my audience that if I get stuck on a block, its okay to help and speak out the word (because its behind me on a 20x20 white wall on a PowerPoint presentation- so the word is right there) to help me get past this and move on. I never apologize, I just go out there and do my best and when I read the evaluations afterwards, 99% are ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Never let your stutter hold you back.