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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
1 points

Yes it happens with everyone normally everything takes time and practice and best of luck ahead don't give up and always know to be kind with yourself ...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
3 points

I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling :( I have a stutter too and I 100% relate to everything you’re saying. I tried fluency shaping speech therapy for over 10 years (age 13-25ish). I gave up because it...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
5 points

Meh Ive stuttered during every interview. I laugh it off, tell them I have a stuttering issue and they say it’s fine. Me and my stutter are a complete package. I have no shame about it and will laugh...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
4 points

Dude,dont be so hard on yourself.as a person who stutters,I know sometimes the stutter messes up with life.and its fine.we have to be resilient enough to deal with it,and not cry all the time.and dont...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
3 points

Some find it a turn off, some find it cute, others don’t care. Don’t worry the about it, the right woman will want you for who you are, flaws and all. My best advice is dating apps, get to know them t...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

I’m starting to think that most of our problems follow from avoiding the blocks. It creates new and new coping mechanisms, “tricks” — that are seems worse than stuttering itself. Try to allow yourself...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
11 points

My past girlfriends and wife all said one of the things that attracted them to me was my stutter. They said it was cute and disarming and made me more approachable. Having a stutter also helps deflec...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
3 points

Try not to let the stutter define who you are as a person. Does it cause a few setbacks in your life? Absolutely. As hard as it is, you have to accept your stutter first. Build confidence by appreciat...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

In my opinion, when we say we accept it, it just means we learn to live with it. The feelings of embarrassment and stress they never go away. We just learn to live with it. Make a joke about your stut...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

The realest answer is that it's gotta be a choice that comes from you, from within. But I'll see if I can offer a few ideas. 1. Locus of control. Even with your best efforts, you can't completely pic...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

Never! I have a moderate/severe stutter but also a wonderful career as a CPA, live on a lake, am a wildlife photographer, have been married over 40 years, have 3 grown sons, 2 daughters-in-law and an ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
3 points

Make them suffer your stutter by staying around. We’ve all been there to some degree. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
3 points

Hey I'm a stutterer who became a doctor. I really struggled during the first part of med school but gradually found my groove. I did go to speech therapy when I was at my worst, and it got me out of t...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
1 points

Ik its odd bro but girls actually think stuttering is cute idk why Shoot ur shot dude u got it...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
2 points

Most people (not just women) value authenticity - well not everyone, but perhaps the ones that you want to have meaningful relationship with. This is true for any kind of relationship, not just romant...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
1 points

Yeah, I guess so. :) I would lie if I say it was easy. I basically stopped studying because of the fear of talking in front of many people (I blamed other things for it at that time). Or being afraid ...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
2 points

My husband has a stutter. When we first started dating, I didn't care at all, I just saw it sort of like an accent. And now I love his stutter, and I love hearing other people who stutter cause it rem...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
3 points

First of all we have to accept that we have Stammering. Only then we can work on that....

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
3 points

Man I’ve only been in this stuttering sub for only a few days and I’m already sick and fucking tired of this cure talk. I’ve stuttered my entire life. It’s a bitch. It seems like a lot of people talk ...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
12 points

All of my past girlfriends and my wife told me one of the things that attracted them to me was my stutter. A stutter is disarming and makes you unique and thoughtful. These are highly attractive quali...

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