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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
2 points

He's someone who's going to be a part of you for a very long time that if he continues to keep on mocking your stutter like this then it will have severe long-term effects on your confidence and self-...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
5 points

Maybe try explaining to him just how harmful these jokes can be for you, and if he still doesn’t stop, which hopefully doesn’t happen, then he doesn’t appreciate or care about you as much as he should...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
11 points

Don't let it slip, that's mean and cruel and from your dad no less. Have a serious talk with him, and explain those comments hurt your feelings and you hope they will not be repeated again . Best w...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
18 points

That sucks. Ask him not to joke about your stutter. Tell him it hurts your feelings. You deserve to be treated better than that. Fathers should always support and elevate their kids. When we make a...

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postr/StutterJul 3, 2021
75 points

I am stuttering openly now, this time last year no one heard me stutter

I am stuttering openly now, this time last year no one heard me stutter Hello fello stutterers. I want to share the progress I've made over the past few months. This time last year I was finishing co...

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postr/StutterJul 1, 2021
6 points

Not a story or a question

Not a story or a question Just an attempt of bettering my situation. ​ I'm looking for somebody who I could call and speak to and share some of my knowledge on stuttering and just practic...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2021
1 points

You’ve hit the nail on the head there. That’s exactly what I experienced years ago growing up, sometimes still happens but I make sure I reinforce what I said if I see that I’m being blatantly ignored...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
1 points

Yes I’m never going to say “I have an uncontrollable affliction, which means I am entitled to you changing your behaviour”. That makes you look like a cunt. I’d rather have people understand and chang...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
1 points

I feel you man but there will always be these people. Trust me this behavior will get to them in their life and they will also grow. I know it's hard but best muscle I have developed is the ability to...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
6 points

I'm going to get downvoted for this but part of having a stutter is learning to defend yourself. When things like this happen, you need to take your phone out, record, ask for a manager and raise hell...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
20 points

If that happaned to me I would go inside and "Lemme talk to your manager". You should defend yourself. And I am sorry for your brother, he´s not very smart....

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
2 points

Oh man, If I had a quarter for every time I’ve heard “your cutting in and out sir, I think you have bad cell service”. I always have to tell them “it’s not bad cell service, I have a speech impediment...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
1 points

ohhh i couldnt agree more! what boils my blood though is when i say that i have a stutter because i 1) want to be upfront with it to deal with it better and 2) avoid awkward situations ASAP and they i...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
3 points

Thanks for sharing yout story I think that the fear of public speaking that we develop is our main problem and not the repetitions or prolongations. When I started to observe how other people react wh...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2021
14 points

When I was in the fire academy, the instructor that was supposed to teach that day, had a emergency or something so the chief had to take over for that day. The chief decided to hold mock group interv...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2021
5 points

A good company and co-workers will recognize your stammer and give you the time you need. 24 years old, your career is just starting out. Don't quit! I'm a software engineering myself, and you can ...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
3 points

Has your leadership told you it’s not working out? Are you concerned about getting fired or is it taking an emotional toll or both. I’ve gone through harsh work meetings and presentations, and rarely...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
2 points

I have seen some positives of having a stutter like this too that if someone can’t be patient in being eager of what you have to say, even if you stutter, then it can sometimes cause me to think that ...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
3 points

I wouldn't use those words but I get what you're saying. It's really just a bunch of hurt children operating a grown up body when they respond to you in a way that is uncalled for. And you best be...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
14 points

You forgot to include “asshole/bitch” detector. The bad ones can’t see past it, and you don’t have to weed them out down the line; they do it for you....

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