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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2013
3 points

For me, making a complete pause with a deep breath works way better than going uhmm uhmm. If you laugh it off, people are much more understanding. I usually smile and say something like "sorry, brain...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2013
5 points

It's a secondary stuttering behavior. It doesn't help us and we should seek to eliminate it. We probably do it because we are self conscious about our stutters or think it helps (it doesn't)....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2013
1 points

I do. I try to just pause, but I feel like I need some type of filler as opposed to complete silence...

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2013
1 points

Oh God yes. Exactly what you said. Terribly embarrassing. I called my therapist a few weeks ago and left a message saying something like this "Hi, this is ummm, uhh, ummm, umm umm ummm sioux4...." I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2013
2 points

Yes, it used to happen to me, too. My speech therapist advice: just stay silent until you feel that you are able to say what you want to say. It will seem like ages to you, so at first it may be diff...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2013
6 points

Yeah. I used to do it even more, but I think that people prefer silence to fillers. When I hear someone using ums and uhhs a lot it just distracts me from what they're saying, so I'm trying to get tho...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 27, 2013
11 points

Do any of you say "um" or "uhh" repetitively?

Do any of you say "um" or "uhh" repetitively? When I stutter when talking I usually go, "Hi my name is um, umm, um, uhh, uhh, um, gravitycloudfilms, and during this i'm usually bouncing up and down or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2013
1 points

It's a silent prolongation. Other people have called this a 'block,' an accurate description -- you're having trouble initiating the motor movements for the upcoming sound. One of the features of st...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
postr/StutterAug 20, 2013
8 points

Share your most funny/embarrassing speech disorder related story! Here's mine, it might be hard to beat...

Share your most funny/embarrassing speech disorder related story! Here's mine, it might be hard to beat... When I was in 4th grade my grade school would have 2 students (different everyday) do the ple...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2013
1 points

try to keep breathing, blocks are caused by not having air flow to your vocal cords try not to have a bridge word, stuttering habits are really hard to break. Try to say the first word in a relaxed, ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2013
2 points

Same thing here. I stutter on the first word, but once I'm talking I don't stutter until I pause for breath or something. Sometimes I avoid using the words that making me stutter and use synonyms, or ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2013
4 points

Seems like you're just reaching a "block" on that particular sound. This is a disfluency that happens regularly for a lot of people who stutter, including myself. Saying something before it to smooth ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterAug 19, 2013
7 points

I'm new. Different type of stutter?

I'm new. Different type of stutter? Hey had this stutter last year some time but i got rid of it but now it's come back. Once i started talking i can talk no problem but sometimes i get stuck when i h...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2013
2 points

Hey there! I remember stuttering since I was a kid, my friend's mom would mention to her that I have a speech problem or kids in school would make fun the way I talked. But, stuttering runs in my fa...

Causes & VariabilityTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Genetic & Family FactorsSeeking TherapyAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2013
1 points

It does suck. But I found changing the word makes it worse and saying hello becomes harder and harder the more you avoid it. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2013
2 points

Tip 4 helps me the most. Its really good, but sometmies those fill vocals take too long...so it's weird too, but nobody thinks you are stuttering....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2013
1 points

> I treat all speaking engagements I have as if they were serious. Before the meeting, make a quick outline, list or notes highlighting the key discussion points. Give it as much structure as possi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2013
2 points

I have caller ID and let the answering machine pick up any number I don't recognize. That leaves me only directly answering people I am comfortable with and therefore doesn't trigger my stutter. Anyw...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2013
2 points

I never remember stuttering when talking to myself until after I started self-identifying as having a stutter. I think it came from playing imaginary scenarios in my head that involved me stuttering. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 31, 2013
1 points

Reactions when you come across other stutters...

Reactions when you come across other stutters... I have a very mild stutter, and am in a position where I have to speak with customers. I tend to use word substitutions fairly often, and am a little e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions