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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2020
2 points

I'm sorry you're experiencing this. I'm 27 now (stuttering since I was 2) but when I was a kid, my mom would get annoyed with my stutter and it made it so much worse. Now my stutter gets worse wheneve...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2020
3 points

I know the feeling. I grew up with an abusive father. Got no support at all. Only my mum accepted me. As immigrants, they didn't know there was treatment and support for stuttering, so I went my ...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Yeah I think it was. I find this a bit neglectful though, you know? ignoring it won’t do any good. It’s funny because my mum always says you should always face things too. It’s just hard....

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

Maybe they were hurt that their daughter had a stutter and they had an idea of how hard your life must be and found ignoring it a way of helping them not feel much pain. Maybe it was their way of deal...

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postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Feeling resentment towards my parents for not getting me a speech therapist

Feeling resentment towards my parents for not getting me a speech therapist Hi guys, so I’m a 21 year old female who has just graduated from university with a good degree and I’m on the hunt for a job...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
7 points

I was worried about it too before I had my son almost 12 years ago, but unfortunately I don't think there's anything anyone can say to put your mind at ease. Hell, my kid talks fine & I still find...

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postr/StutterAug 28, 2020
8 points

Parent with a stutter

Parent with a stutter Wondering if there are any parents with stutters or kids with parents who stutter here? About to have a baby, and I’m terrified that I will “teach” my kid to stutter. Is this a...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2020
1 points

Same here man. While I was reading this, it was like watching my life and life situations from before. My brother even used to yell at me saying that I don't stutter and how all of that is in my head....

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2020
1 points

im stuttering in mu first language, i dont really know if ita happening in english bc i dont really talk out loud. i cant go to a speech therapist bc my parents think its funny and that it will go awa...

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commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
2 points

Can’t you write your frustrations to your parents? They probably don’t even know what’s going on in your head. They need to know your feelings. They want to help, they just don’t know the way you’r...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

I'm not saying it's selfish to have kids, but i personally think it is if you have a health problem like that. I wouldn't want my kid to go what i went through... I hope your kid will have a good life...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
0 points

No offense but i personally think it's kinda selfish... But you're the judge of your life so don't bother me...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
1 points

Family relations are tricky and I’m not going to presume I know anything about your relationship with your father. Is it safe to assume, however, that your dad loves you and wants the best for you? I...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2020
2 points

I work in the medical field and am also a stutterer. I have similar fears at times, but I remind myself that people pass on much more life-threatening or debilitating diseases to their children. Thing...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2020
20 points

I was worried about it too before I had my son almost 12 years ago, but unfortunately I don't think there's anything anyone can say to put your mind at ease. Hell, my kid talks fine & I still find...

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postr/StutterJun 8, 2020
25 points

Me and wife planning on starting family.

Me and wife planning on starting family. Now this might seem mundane to most, but I grew up with a severe stutter that became a mild one in adulthood. My father also has a minor stutter. I went to spe...

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2020
3 points

My mom too got angry with me when I was 8 years old. I remember a teacher sent me to the school psychologist and there she made me read some stuff. She gave me a note and told me that it was for my mo...

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2020
1 points

I understand your frustration with your dad. I can you, as a dad with a child that is experiencing stuttering, he most likely is trying to help and loves you. I hope that helps, just a little bit....

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
9 points

I can relate so much to the "Why me?" part. I don't think i'll have children because i don't want them to experience what i went through...

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commentr/StutterMay 27, 2020
2 points

My son is 2.5 yrs old so a little too young to tell but so far he speaks great! I’m currently pregnant with my second and yeah... I cry at least weekly because of how bad my speech has been lately. Wi...

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