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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
3 points

I disclosed my stutter in an oral exam and it ended up giving me a higher grade than what I thought I should have got. Cant complain though....

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
4 points

Only make those efforts if it’s valuable to you. Nobody else gets to dictate how you express yourself. I’ve gone to pretty large extents with some extended family members when they commented on it of...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shiftMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

>I just wish people asked us more about our stutter and how they can make us feel more confortable when talking Yes please ! I'd enjoy that people don't tell me to breath, don't try to guess my words...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
2 points

Do not recommend speech therapy?? Umm not a good advice. A good speech therapist can truly make a difference. Yes they may not improve your stutter but self advocacy, confidence, awareness can all hel...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
1 points

Self advocacy helped my son a lot. We were blessed with extremely good speech therapist in school who ingrained in my son’s brain that he is no different than others and to speak up for himself...

Coping & AdvocacyParent & Caregiver
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool/Clinical Advocacy
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
4 points

I gave a presentation yesterday and some of my friends still think I'm just nervous, as well as the teacher. Told them I am a natural stutterer. I speak like this and I can't control it. I was confide...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2025
6 points

You deserve to talk in a way that makes you not feel shame for speaking that way. You deserve to be listened to even if you stutter when you’re saying it. You also deserve the patience and space to be...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2025
17 points

(rent) I HATE WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO DICTATE MY SPEECH I HATE IT SO MUCH

(rent) I HATE WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO DICTATE MY SPEECH I HATE IT SO MUCH Like I know talk with a stutterer can also be difficult for the listener, cause the words became sometimes hard to understand, but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
1 points

Throw myself into the fire by joining the military with a job that heavily involves talking to people. The military also provides speech therapy for free....

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2025
3 points

My best advice is to immediately introduce yourself as someone who stutters. Don’t apologize, just explain, and then immediately move to the next topic, bc you don’t need them to respond. Add in so...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnticipating StutteringSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
2 points

I regularly say this at the start of important calls, meetings with new people etc, even though I consider myself mentally over my stutter. It both defuses the stuttering (it's already brought up so i...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
2 points

I tell HR ahead of time (or whoever sent you the email or phone call to invite you to the interview). I’ll copy and paste mine below from 2 months ago “ Hi Tori, Thank you so much for an invitation ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
4 points

I'd suggest don't go to HR yet tell him you don't like the way he is treating you if he isn't sorry about it and still continues his behavior then contact HR...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterDec 7, 2025
8 points

I’m trying not to be offended, but I am.

I’m trying not to be offended, but I am. Not sure if there’s a vent or advice flair or whatever. Title says it all. I had an interaction with a miserable coworker who opened a conversation with me wit...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
1 points

Sounds like you're just too lazy to put the work in. "Life on Delay" by John Hendrickson is a memoir that delivers hard-won, practical advice for stutterers: Accept permanence. Letting go of the "fl...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others+3 more
postr/StutterDec 6, 2025
6 points

How do you feel about this?

How do you feel about this? I just had what I thought was a fairly fluent phone call with a car insurance company, I spoke a bit too fast in places and repeated some syllables. At the end, the call h...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
1 points

Many of our speaking environments include strangers. If you have a covert stutter, your listener won’t even know that avoiding eye contact or unexpected pauses are how your stutter presents. We ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterDec 5, 2025
0 points

Don’t Accept Your Stutter

Don’t Accept Your Stutter Disclaimer: Depending on your severity People who are paralyzed sometimes try to walk again, walking fluently. People who have are bad at a trade or skill, don’t accept t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2025
2 points

I strongly believe it’s how you handle it when it happens. As others in this thread have rightly said, many many people one encounters in the workplace are dull and have very little to say that’s uniq...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2025
2 points

not a Christian but raised as one. The story of Moses. He was a stutterer and is A VERY IMPORTANT FIGURE in all abrahamic religions. With the support of his brother, he was able to achieve what he n...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
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