(rent) I HATE WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO DICTATE MY SPEECH I HATE IT SO MUCH
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(rent) I HATE WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO DICTATE MY SPEECH I HATE IT SO MUCH Like I know talk with a stutterer can also be difficult for the listener, cause the words became sometimes hard to understand, but when someone just tell me "slow down and take a deep breath", or worse, as it happened 5 minutes ago "please use the techniques you learnt" I'm just SO PISSED OF. If someone were to say to me, "Excuse me, I'm having a little trouble understanding you, could you slow down your speech a bit to make it easier for me?" I'd understand and try to slow down, once again it takes more concentration to listen to a stutterer. But I HATE the way people just seems to say "your stutter is pissing me off, please hide it for my own comfort." The worst is when ot happens when my stutter wasn't even that hard that time. No hard block, long repetitions nor fluency techniques, I was speaking naturally to smo cause I WAS NOT STRESSED TALKING TO THEM ! And they straight up stress out the conversation saying "advices" like that, and now I feel forced to talk "correctly", masking myself just to make them happy. I hate those advices, I hate when someone infantilizes me or seems to be pissed by my speech. I just wanna stop talking and leave when it happens. Sorry for the rent. Perhaps I'm taking this too personally, but I would just like to be allowed to speak without being judged or criticized