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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2023
1 points

I think ice breakers are a good thing in this respect. I mean, if you're already connected with your team, you can make prior conversation with your teammates either through text or in-person. If you'...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2023
1 points

There’s a decent chance they’ve already noticed the stutter. Still wouldn’t hurt to mention it....

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2023
3 points

If you stutter, just casually be like my bad i stutter. Dont overly apologize just acknowledge it so people know whats happening. 99% of the time people are like oh ok. Its when you dont and your face...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
4 points

I tried that, but I like to make eye contact with everybody I’m speaking to so they all feel engaged. Idk it’s a weird thing because I know how it feels to not be included in a conversation and I don’...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
3 points

Absolutely, always disclose as much and as early as possible. I’m fact, SLP who specialize in dusfluency cite disclosing as one of the most effective strategies. When ppl give advice here, before ta...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
4 points

Get the qualifications needed and be honest to your employer about your stutter. As long as you continue to work for it and it's something you want to do, go for it. Of course it depends on which gra...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
2 points

The kid was receiving intensive therapy 4x/week, so it was beyond “being a brat”. I got instantly super fluent and said “I know you wouldn’t say that to another kid”. I basically just did the oppos...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
1 points

don’t be sad about it, I confidently tell people i stutter if i can’t say something :)...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
1 points

I never got interviewed, but I had to interact a lot with strangers due to extra school activities and partnerships. My stutter is not the strongest, so it's not that bad when I speak, compared to oth...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
1 points

You don’t need to feel bad for or worry about the person on the other end of the phone. They probably have people cussing them out and yelling at them most days, so a polite person with a stutter is n...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
1 points

I used to tense up very tight as a kid and look weird. I was made fun of for it (on top of the stutter), so I made myself stop. It was mostly just keeping eye contact with whoever I talked to. No ma...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
3 points

In fact, the block happens *because* you are trying to push through it. The way to reduce the blocking is to let people hear your repetitions while making eye contact....

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
5 points

Laughing at your own stutter is actually very good, I do it sometimes too. It's a positive way to show people that you're not so complexed about your stutter. But laughing at it doesn't mean people c...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
1 points

Ive been in court many times and had to deal with "authorities" laughing at my stutter or they assume im nervous because I stutter i just mock their laugh and tell them to fuck off. Not much else you ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
3 points

Part of it is probably ways you are trying to subconsciously avoid eye contact. Try to make normal eye contact - this is actually a huge way to ULTIMATELY get your brain to feel less ashamed, which l...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
1 points

Write the judge a letter… They read those… If they are still want to be a dick… Go to the papers… Judges hate catching bad ink....

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
1 points

A little chuckle isn't likely anything to get in a twist about any more than a scoff or raised eyebrows. I do suggest to anyone reading this to seize the opportunities that present themselves. When ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
45 points

Judge laughs at stutter

Judge laughs at stutter Hey guys! I had to appear in court recently just to plead not guilty for a parking violation. In describing what was happening, I of course stuttered and heard a little chuckle...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
1 points

You're not alone. For me its aslo a cknstant struggle from participating in class, just talking to people. To make it better, I recommend you to tell people directly that you stutter (friend, teacher)...

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postr/StutterJan 31, 2023
11 points

Hello, fellow stutterers, I have a question for you all. Do you think there has been enough research on the stuttering that focuses upon the responses of the stutterer to the society and culture around them? I know there have been medical, therapeutic research.

Hello, fellow stutterers, I have a question for you all. Do you think there has been enough research on the stuttering that focuses upon the responses of the stutterer to the society and culture aroun...

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