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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
2 points

I think what you mean by embracing and what my friends/family mean by ignoring are pretty similar - like a mute acceptance but not dwelling on it at all. Basically, they think that recognition for cha...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
2 points

Well, I have stuttered all my life ( I'm 24) but lately I have learned that embracing and accepting my stutter is really the only way it would let go of me. I guess, when we accept it and proudly embr...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
2 points

I haven't read it, but I'm always interested by people who have their stutter become their life (even for a while). I suppose it's similar to someone with a sick relative or a rare disease who then be...

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commentr/StutterJul 3, 2013
2 points

Pro: Since my stutter is rather minor it makes me thankful it's not severe. Beyond that, I can't fully explain it, but I think I'm a nicer person today because of it. I think I would have turned out...

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2013
2 points

thanks. Having a stutter does not matter in life, if you don't let it define who you are. That's why I was angry - because I have now built into me that I'm a capable person and that stuttering is not...

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2013
3 points

It's perfectly normal for a stutter to fade as you get older. It will still come back time to time, but you'll likely find yourself giving less of a shit about it, and even less of a shit if people j...

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2013
1 points

smile. :D Seriously, for some strange odd reason whenever I smile my stammer seems to disappear. It must be a confidence thing, but it helps not only with interviews but with talking to women on the ...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
1 points

That's going to a pretty great length to avoid stuttering. You really should try to be more comfortable with your own stutter (I know that's not something you can just snap your fingers and do, it doe...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
3 points

don't do that.the fact,that you are stuttering is just one of your features.there is no need to be afraid/ashamed. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
6 points

Thanks! I agree, but like OP says- it gets old. Plus, I was in the mind set of arguing when I walked in (occupational hazard). Would I do it in any other circumstance-no. Do I regret saying it- no. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
3 points

Why not just leave it at >"I know my own name, I just stutter. Adding more to it just adds insult to injury. Also props for becoming a attorney with stuttering....

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
4 points

I just feel bad for the cause i know the second they find out i stutter they will have the worst feels in years. So i usually end up just smiling and saying "nahbro, sorry im a full-time stutterer". ...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
1 points

ha thanks. you too. I learned a bit ago, not just for stutterers but most social encounters, the more comfortable you feel, the more comfortable the other person will feel. this works with girls/guys ...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
0 points

> I think your question is the answer. Well said. You're completely right. I sincerely hope you have a great day....

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
2 points

I think your question is the answer. To show you are cool about it and not offended, look like you're cool with it and unoffended. That includes dont really worry about them feeling like they offended...

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postr/StutterJun 1, 2013
3 points

One liners for removing the stutter-taboo.

One liners for removing the stutter-taboo. Often when i meet new people someon plops out something like "You cold or something?" And i mention i always stutter. 90% I can feel the other person think "...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2013
7 points

Personally, I think if someone picks it up and questions you on it, you feel less obliged to try and 'hide' it, so you are in fact more relaxed. That could just be my own personal experience though....

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2013
0 points

No offense, but I would rather not put where I worked at on here, for privacy reasons. I will say that it was east coast. Anyway, I was nervous as shit when my first lesson came up, but honestly I h...

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postr/StutterApr 21, 2013
5 points

Okay, I think it's time to try and push this a little bit.

Okay, I think it's time to try and push this a little bit. I've been a moderate stammer right from the beginning. As a child it didn't affect me very much, but as soon as I got into the teenage years ...

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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2013
1 points

bassist here.i stutter since i was 6. charles van ripers fluency-shaping-aproach and an empathic therapist helped me a lot. never forget: Stuttering isn't your main-attribute.it is just one little pi...

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