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postr/StutterNov 22, 2022
58 points

I feel completely outclassed in social settings

I feel completely outclassed in social settings I've been going out more, hanging out for drinks or boardgames or whatever. But I just feel totally outclassed, everyone runs rings around when it comes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
2 points

Happened to me, I said bye to a fellow gym instructor. She said bye. I made some more small talk and said bye again when I really left and nothing. Maybe too many byes. Lol I know she’s an introvert a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterNov 9, 2022
6 points

stuttering communities

stuttering communities Is there any stuttering communities for people outside of reddit and Id like to talk with others who stutter etc but i kinda shot myself in the foot a long time ago in the only ...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Friendships & BelongingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
1 points

My man. I want you to know you’re not alone. We all struggle with this to some degree or another but the point is we’re in this together. Lots of good people in this sub so check out some of their sto...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
2 points

I've viewed at as a super efficient friend filter. If I was fluent, I wouldn't want to associate with those who aren't open minded enough to accept the possibility of someone who stutters being infe...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
15 points

This is me. I mean i have friends that accepts me but whenever we hang out, i would like myself to be the one that creates a topic, cracking jokes with them, talking to strangers and stuff. But usuall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
12 points

It's a little sad, I think about it sometimes, at least I know that the friends I have are not shallow enough to not being friends with me because I stutter, quality over quantity I guess...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
2 points

I’m 19 and a sophomore in college and as it is I’m a pretty social guy and I like to tell people I’m close to that I’d probably be the most talkative person alive if I didn’t have a stutter. The last ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterOct 28, 2022
25 points

I made a few friends.

I made a few friends. I actually found a group of friends starting out in college. We met through our programming class as we all took a bachelor's in computer science. I've already confessed to one o...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
5 points

Omg thankyou! Literally everyone ive ever met thinks I'm a freak and they've never seen anyone with my problem. It made people not want to be around me. I hate that you went through something similar...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyStigma & BullyingFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
1 points

Therapy is good but stuttering is so nuanced and individual that it really takes a great speech therapist to know how to help this unique condition and individualize it for you. Another thing that hel...

Therapy & ProfessionalCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
3 points

Hi, we run a Discord Stutter Support Server that he can join with 1400 members. We do text and voice chat and play games with each other. You can ask him to join us. Link is in the sidebar....

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
3 points

It would probably be best to involve him in group activities. Maybe a guitar jam session with other kids at school or at the music-school. He would definitely make some friends there without the press...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Friendships & BelongingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
1 points

There a lot of support groups and stuttering communities around the world, check for stuttering groups on Facebook. He needs to feel accepted in this situation. Ping me if you need any more help!...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
2 points

Maybe give him sometime off. Let him play on his xbox if he’s got one. Discord is really good and he can easily make friends there....

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Home SupportFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
3 points

If he needs someone to chat with I’d be more than willing to chat via text/chat or FaceTime with him. I’ve been there, I know how it feels. Send me a DM....

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
11 points

Find him a friend. You need to work hard on this. Throw a weekly party if you have to. Buy video games, ice cream, chips, movies, comic books, whatever he and his friends are into. Invite kids in his ...

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Home SupportFriendships & BelongingSchool/Clinical Advocacy
postr/StutterOct 25, 2022
66 points

Teenage son is talking about suicide.

Teenage son is talking about suicide. My son is 14 years old and is a freshman in high school. He has had a stutter for his entire life and it has had an impact on him socially. He doesn't really h...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2022
5 points

First I want to say that I get you. I’ve also felt this all my life. I’m 24 now, and I have just started what I think the most tranformatory journey of my life. I am just now, at age 24, starting to m...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
12 points

pws have an intrinsic bond and are alike in a way most other people are not. some of your deepest connections will be with other pws....

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Friendships & BelongingValidation & Empathy