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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
3 points

Was playing softball in an after work recreation league. I was asked to join since I used to pitch arc softball when I was in my 20’s and was sort of okay at it. Well I guess the guy coaching us th...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFrustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
8 points

Don’t worry I wanted to be a nurse… then I thought hmm probably not. I wouldn’t be very good in a life or death situation hey.. 😂 MY GOD. The nerve on that man!!!! I COMMEND you for ripping that one...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
6 points

Several years ago I worked for GameStop as an ASL and this guy came in wanted to buy a PlayStation 3 so I explained to him that we did not have any in stock. I told him I could get one ordered and cal...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
11 points

Idk if this counts but I was probably like 21-22 and I worked at subway at the time (also a woman). This disabled guy came in during the lunch rush, and I’m typically very kind (on shift and off) so ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
2 points

I can't really remember details. Basically whenever I had something to say but felt too timid to do so, I would decide to say it anyway. It might have started with small things like asking a supermark...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
0 points

Despite having a stammer, social anxiety, and a load of other problems, I somehow got laid, got sick of my job and decided to go travelling, met loads of people, came home, did a few shit jobs, got si...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
2 points

I have this mindset when I need or really want something. I'm not letting some asshole at the cash register make fun of me lol....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
2 points

The very same thing happened to my son when he was that age. It was sudden and pretty upsetting to have a child that could talk suddenly not be able to get his words out. And you're right, it's hear...

Parent & CaregiverTherapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Treatment DecisionsTherapy ExperiencesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
1 points

100% I'm a 48 yr old outgoing hairstylist with a stutter...its a "them" problem if they can't handle it......

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
10 points

There’s a lot of stuttering that is outside our control, which is madingly frustrating. But, self disclosure isn’t one of those. Removing the elephant in the room by taking control and letting me show...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
2 points

I haven’t read thru the answers here and may be somebody already answered it but speech therapy and put zero pressure on your child to improve the more you want to improve harder the stuttering gets. ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Wow, this was an interesting post. Some of the things you're experiencing I don't think I've had to deal with, atleast to your extent. I hope your able to experience the joys of life, because you def...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Thank you for taking the time to give me same tips, like you I also faund that knowing to get confortable in the unconfortable situation help to reduce the stutter, but it's very difficoult to do that...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
4 points

It sounds like your family just doesn't understand depression. To be fair to them, that's not uncommon. Lots of people think depression is just a big sad and you just need to find some things to be ha...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Sadness & HopelessnessSeeking TherapySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
3 points

I have a moderate stutter, minor with my friends but I have a lot of social anxiety, I'm scared to ask things, order, introduce myself,...But I wouldn't say I have a weak personality, I'm more compass...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
18 points

It used to, then I sought therapy and eventually learned that people didn't care. If I wanted something, I had to go and get it. I powered through blocks and negative thoughts and only focused on ache...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
1 points

Sure there is always risk that you pass on the stutter. As my father passed the stutter on me. I hate the stutter profoundly but my dad also gave me a lot of his strength, intelligence and other posi...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyParent & Caregiver
Genetic & Family FactorsSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHome Support+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
6 points

On the phone when I get stuck on my name and the random guy on the other end starts laughing “what, you forgot your name”?? I tell the c**t I stutter. He shuts the f up instantly and apologises mult...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
6 points

It's helped get me out of speeding tickets 3 times. The conversation usually goes: i get stopped, the cop comes to talk to me, i stutter (more than usual because of the situation), the cop says "why a...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
1 points

Yes, you are so right. He doesn't need to *let me* stutter or give me permission but I'm glad he's supportive about it....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride