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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

I’m sorry to say this, but you’re stuck with it forever. You just have to learn to manage it as best you can. I’m a Christian. I do not believe it is a curse and I no longer believe it’s because of ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

One way is to change self-talk (what you say to yourself). It varies from person to person but some things like I may stutter but what I say matters more than how I say it, get in community of others ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
8 points

If you’re a Christian then this is simply our cross to carry. I need to start praying for my stuttering brothers and sisters ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

They may be mad because they know how great of a person you are and aren’t showing it to potential partners.  At the end of the day, you’re going to have to push past this wall you have built and put...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

There is hope, I know it's scary, but at the same time, try to remember all the other terrible stuff that can happen to our kids lol. A stutter ends up falling pretty low on my list, all things consid...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

I think some things override our social anxiety to the point where the doubt doesn't matter and we keep going, almost like joining a singing quir (sp?).  You can latch onto that but i think what you'r...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
3 points

I didn't, the club had a discord server so I already knew who she was. But that is a fair concern, and I have asked people for numbers/socials/etc occasionally. This struggle is not at all unique to P...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
4 points

Unfortunately this happens. Be assured that as long as he has a compassionate roll model and someone to help him with his feelings, these situations will make him a more companionate person. He will...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Agree with one of the other comments, try dating apps man. I’ve just started using them and went on 3 dates in two weeks. 2 of them when really well and none of them cared about my stutter at all (not...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
3 points

Pity that kid, don’t hate him. It’s harder to be mean than nice. Gotta find that kids parents and talk to them. Then just hope they parent correctly. I’ve been bullied a few times but it was rare as...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Yeah there's not much you can do about that. I don't know these people so I can't really give you advice but if you like someone and you think that she likes you, you should just go for it...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Because as someone else said sometimes people just don't like you simply because they're not attracted most of the time it's probably not even about your stutter. From what I've read from you, it so...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

No I feel you with that and honestly I'm in the same boat but what else can we do. I don't have the answers myself but you will meet people that won't look down on you because of the way you talk....

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
10 points

Online dating has worked really well for me. I've only ask a girl out in person one time and I'm pretty afraid to do so. To give you an idea on my stuttering, it's probably like 7/10. I stutter on mos...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

I’m an 18M and I’ve been in two relationships in my life. One lasted 6 months and the second lasted almost 2 years There isn’t really a difference between how non stutterers finds a relationship and ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Tho I did stutter at university today but a little less and overrall I have felt better ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

They went better than expected, I thought I’d stutter a lot but it wasn’t too bad. But I felt like I was focusing on controlling my speech and using words which I wouldn’t block at that it distracted ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

I had a stutter that developed around the same age and is still with me today in my late twenties. I’m not a professional, so take my advice with a grain of salt. But I have a few thoughts as someone ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

You just need to build up your self-confidence. Very common problem. There are hundreds of effective courses and self-help guides to address low self-esteem and low self-confidence. Just pick a few an...

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
6 points

1. Speech therapy 2. IEP 3. Advocating for him 4. Don’t finish sentences for him. Let him take his time 5. Know that his speech will be perfect one day and he’ll stutter a lot the next day 6. Find his...

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