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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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You shouldn't feel afraid in a relationship. There is no love in fear. I would call her out and explain. Everything and ask her if she thinks it's really ok to laugh at people who are suffering....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Why not? Surely your family understands that you haven’t chosen to stutter; what is your fear here?...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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I would work on improving my relationships with friend and family. I would do check up calls more, asking if they're okay and such. I would talk more to strangers and strike up conversions just for th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Your boss should be a reasonable person. If you don't want to give a presentation in front of an all-company meeting, they should be fine with that. It can be a lot like doing a group project at schoo...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Are you asking about social settings vs. professional setting? Because I have been shocked and disgusted about the way I continue to be treated. For example, I called in to the VA recently and tried...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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I would go the petrol pump, and ask for "100 bucks fuel, please" instead of going "one zero zero 100 bucks fuel, please" just so I can have a runaway so I don't stutter on "one-hundred". After that, l...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Finally talk like i want. Without dodging words, changing the sentence. Phone calls like its nothing. And ask for a date/number....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Go to as many fast food places that ask your name (Starbys, for one!), order a shitload of complicated orders, and actually say my name when they ask for it. Go to stores and inquire about their stu...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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It depends, if you can get what you want from life and enjoy it with the people who accept you as you are, then you will be happy. Just fuck those who laugh at you....

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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You don't have to read out loud or give presentations in school.

You don't have to read out loud or give presentations in school. Stuttering is a disability. We may not like thinking of it that way, but it clearly is. As such, in the United States at least, public ...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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I also stutter around my dad more than any of my family members. It is because he criticized me about improving. it was just very hard to talk to him because he wouldn’t understand what I was saying b...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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You just can't be cocky or a jerk about it. Anything that is important to you should be handled the same way. Especially in a classroom or workplace setting....

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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You definitely have to set boundaries for those around you. Whether they are friends, family, teachers, bosses or coworkers. Respectfully tell them if you are bothered by something they say or do. I r...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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Id say go for it, dont be wierd about it, just be like hey I stutter and I noticed that you may also stutter and see where it goes from there. If they get shy about it back off, no big deal. I persona...

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commentr/StutterOct 17, 2023
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If he was getting uncomfortable, then it is his problem. You were not causing any discomfort, you were struggling and that is okay. However, it is illegal for the company to fire you because you stutt...

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commentr/StutterOct 17, 2023
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Just make sure that he never feels like you treat him like he is less capable than his siblings/friends because of his speech. You said you will support him through thick and thin so I have no worries...

Parent & CaregiverAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Home SupportAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2023
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My son also made fun of me once. After I removed his fingernail with a pair of pliers, he never did it again. Jk, we talked about it as well and I asked him how he would feel if kids at school made ...

Coping & AdvocacyParent & Caregiver
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHome Support
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2023
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I can tell you waht i did to overcome my fear of stuttering.. dm me if you want to chat...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2023
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Took me 40 years to understand this, and i wish most people, esp youngsters would understand it, and not have to go through the pain and suffering i went through: making fluency your goal will ruin...

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Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2023
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I'm a dad who stutters. I do a pretty good job of concealing it, so it's usually not too big of a deal. My kids get pretty angry and bothered on those very rare occasions when people do laugh, but I t...

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