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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
7 points

haha, so much to unpack here — 1. I’m 26F 2. yes! I do have a social life — my friends accept me for who I am & I found a partner who loves me unconditionally (never finishes my sentence or anyt...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
12 points

I'm 26 also never really been in a relationship, but also like you never tried. I think we are just later bloomers, don't feel pressure to do anything in life. Take things at your own pace...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
8 points

yes. i would say i have a mild to moderate stutter. ive always had a couple of friends in school, but lost contact with all of them as i got older. i have put sports (running) and trying to maintain a...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
4 points

Moderate here. It's varies a lot. When put into groups of strangers I tend to be the less spoken. I a class I tend to be the least likely to participate. Having said that among my friends I am the fun...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
2 points

Yeah, I think a combination of stuttering and other circumstances in my life (social isolation, feeling rejected, experiences at work, etc.) sort of affected my personality as I became an adult. I can...

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postr/StutterJul 7, 2023
36 points

Do you have a weak personality or social anxiety because of your severe stuttering?

Do you have a weak personality or social anxiety because of your severe stuttering? did your stutter played a role in weakening your personality like having soical anxiety or trying to avoid people or...

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postr/StutterJul 4, 2023
19 points

Stuttering upsets me more than it probably upsets other people. It makes me want to avoid socializing, got any tips?

Stuttering upsets me more than it probably upsets other people. It makes me want to avoid socializing, got any tips? I just absolutely HATE that I can't say what I want to others and I feel like half ...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
1 points

FYI: The minimum age for Discord is 13. When he gets older, you can point his to our official Discord Stutter Support Group (SSG), [https://discord.gg/ruf5BAt](https://discord.gg/ruf5BAt). There he c...

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commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
1 points

Our Discord Stutter Support server, 1400 people on there, voice chatting, text chatting, gaming. [https://discord.gg/ruf5BAt](https://discord.gg/ruf5BAt) After listening to other people stutter, you ...

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commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
4 points

Hi there, join our Discord Stutter Support Server, https://discord.gg/ruf5BAt we have a big group from there going, so you meet up with our group that is there now....

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commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
3 points

I went to 9 straight. I didn't feel like I "fit in" until the 3rd conference. In hindsight, it was because I was very uncomfortable in any social situation and very fearful of speaking. Just be open...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2023
1 points

I'm wondering this myself. I'm 31 and had alot of friends in my late teens early 20s. They all turned out to not give a fuck about me and not respect me. I'm pretty cynical now and doubt I'll ever be ...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2023
6 points

Don't worry about the rant! Most people here love reading about various perspectives and are constantly trying to learn new things. I'm in my early twenties and it's good to know what the possibiliti...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2023
-6 points

Not trying to be rude but too long didn't read. Also not trying to be downer but you are a 30 year old male. It's a depressing life. If you have any friends, try your best to build current relationshi...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2023
4 points

When I was that age, I was able to make friends organically just by being around the same people in school. I think it usually involves someone outgoing reaching out to you and it goes from there. If ...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2023
9 points

Find a hobby and look online for groups that meet in person. When you find someone you get along with, handcuff them to you. BOOM friends!...

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postr/StutterJun 30, 2023
13 points

How do you make friends in your 30s?

How do you make friends in your 30s? I think most people in my shoes are usually younger people in college or high school. Mine is different, I had friends from high school and college by the virtue o...

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postr/StutterJun 25, 2023
13 points

Looking for friends :)

Looking for friends :) Hi everybody, is anyone here from germany, preferably munich? I desperately need someone to talk to about life, work, uni, mental health, etc. while dealing with being a person ...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
4 points

Stop telling her to slow down. It doesn't help and if we wanted to slow down we would. It also reinforces that stuttering is not ok because if it were you wouldn't be telling her to slow down in order...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
1 points

Loneliness is the worst enemy imo. We are social beings and being deprived of friendship, etc drains us. Try to find a hobby that you can participate during your spare time. Even better if it is physi...

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