I'm wondering this myself. I'm 31 and had alot of friends in my late teens early 20s. They all turned out to not give a fuck about me and not respect me. I'm pretty cynical now and doubt I'll ever be able to find good friends that don't judge me & are real. I think finding friends in you 30s is hard enough the way it is for normal social people because everybody already has they're own life and is picky or just doesn't care in general. If you had a few good friends in your youth I think it's easier to meet people through them. But to be honest I'm pretty much done with bullshit & accepted that I have to be a loner to be Happy. But you could try like others have said, hobbies and joining clubs. It's hard for people like us to be social when everybody either thinks we are retarded or wierd and doesn't want to be associated with us. It is what it is tho.