Moderate here. It's varies a lot. When put into groups of strangers I tend to be the less spoken. I a class I tend to be the least likely to participate. Having said that among my friends I am the funny and fun one. It's a very strange feeling still for my friends to make me the leader of fun stuff. I am very good on first dates. One night stands have been common for me. Yet I lack long term relationship experience which is what I crave the most.