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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
1 points

Agree on a mid-sentence alert that you could use when you get interrupted mid-sentence. Something like just saying "mid-sentence!" or tapping your chest. So when the group hears your mid-sentence aler...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
3 points

Tell her that you are not done speaking ... lean into it, it will make this teacher look like an asshole, it also forces her to acknowledge that you are there....

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
1 points

Why don't we down right ASK a person "why are you creeped out by my stuttering problem...if you had a missing limb would I be freaked out by you??? "----That's something I would like to do...but I wo...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
2 points

Perfect lol. Pick something that you know they hate (and/or insecure) about themselves and jam it in their face. Or wait a minute and maybe she’ll apologize for a rash frustrated comment. Families a...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

I like how you reflected on it, I agree that people aren't intending to be rude, they just aren't used to living in that discomfort. That's a discomfort that we know all too well, but I guess for thos...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
5 points

I am really rude if someone does this to me. My response has been well at least I am not a fat ugly cunt. Really takes them by surprise to be fair. If she wants to throw stones throw some back....

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
6 points

She doesn’t sound entirely supportive. I think the best approach is to communicate to her, in whichever way is most comfortable *to you*, how unhelpful what she decided to do can be. No offence but s...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2024
3 points

be okay with taking up space, whether that means having to repeat yourself louder or physically take up room, and some people legit aren’t aware of their interruption habits so I’ve accepted it and mi...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2024
1 points

Why can we not blame them?? Others wait just fine, so why should we excuse one person who is uncomfortable? Stuttering is uncomfortable for us too and just because thats how they handle discomfort, do...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2024
1 points

Okay but why is their instinct to act on their discomfort? I think that people in general could use a lesson on thinking about what they’re about to say....

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postr/StutterMar 18, 2024
2 points

Other people reaction

Other people reaction It sucks when we stutter in front of someone. They make silly joke´s, think we forgot our name, look us with a weird expression. I heard a history of someone thinking a PWS was r...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2024
1 points

Point is to make them own the fact that they’ve been rude, bc, stutter or no stutter, it’s a rude thing to say....

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2024
1 points

Haven't heard this said to me in a long time but if I did I'd just reply, "Did I stutter ?" And I'd probably purposefully stutter on the word stutter, in case the person is a legit retard....

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2024
6 points

I don’t like letting people get away with talking stupid shit. Try making ‘em pay for it next time! If a salesman feels like he offended you, it could even give you the upper hand in your dealings wit...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2024
12 points

I get this about once a month or so (I have to make a lot of phone calls for work). It’s always been one of my least favourite “jokes” that people tell me when I’m blocking on my name. To combat it, I...

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postr/StutterMar 17, 2024
3 points

mid-sentence alert ideas

mid-sentence alert ideas Can we talk about mid-sentence alert accommodation ideas that we could ask in our relationships and workplaces? Let's talk about them. I have two ideas to share. By mid-sente...

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postr/StutterMar 13, 2024
33 points

Somethings you just never get over

Somethings you just never get over I'm 36 and have stuttered for my entire life that I can remember. One thing I can never get over is the impatience in some people, they sigh, they start talking to a...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2024
2 points

I just have to be honest at the very start and expect the bare minimum of patience and respect. If you don’t disclose, you put more unnecessary pressure on yourself and sadly most listeners seem to ta...

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
2 points

Law enforcement here, it can be yes. Especially if you’re in a stressful situation trying to order someone to do something....

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
1 points

My job requires it quite often. I work in healthcare security and sometimes you have to be very assertive with people. I’m 26 and have been able to curb a lot of my stutter but when tensions get high ...

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