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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
2 points

it depends, mine got soo much better after lockdown. I even believed my stuttering was gone, I was so fluent......

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
0 points

And my stutter is far from my “master.” That bitch is now on *my* payroll....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
1 points

I don’t have fucking Stockholm syndrome. I’ve simply overcome a challenge in my life in a way that works for me — a challenge that remains challenging in spite of that. God forbid I seek support from ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
1 points

Again, I can speak just fine. Here I was thinking I’d receive support from my fellow stutterers for overcoming this challenge in a way that works for me. How silly of me to have such a “delusional” a...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
2 points

i was thinking about the same thing yesterday evening like how this thing makes me so much more unique than anyone, not to feed the ego, but with time this became an inherent part of me. and i am the ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
1 points

But truthfully though what else can you do but cope? After you’ve done everything the only thing left is cope Cope is good, it at-least reframes the mind into seeing the positives in things rather t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
18 points

I would say the levels of cope and delusion in this sub are funny, but the more I think about its actually sad seeing posts like this. The fact people here have to pretend to enjoy the fact they cant...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
1 points

It's js how we gotta live bro we gotta compromise. But there are a lot of actors and stuff who used to have stutter but now they dont...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
34 points

The stutter definitely gave me character development. I am also grateful for it, but I am also ready to let it go ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
1 points

In college, I had to video myself for English comp. Then share with the class and explain. I did it on stuttering. Got an A on my paper and the video. I just incorporated my stutter. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
3 points

Here's some advice from someone who has probably two decades of experience on you: You can't run away from life. Sooner or later it all catches up on you anyway. Go into all those feared situations wi...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
5 points

Well i understood that there are only two ways to live with it, first it to work on it, doing yoga and therapy, second one is stop being ashamed of it. And after a lot of depression and anxiety im kin...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesMindset shiftSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
2 points

Literally this. Soooo much brilliant advice on this sub. For me, same as many have said. With time, you care less and the stutter is just like whatever. Unfortunately I had to live through it to know ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
1 points

I simply forget I have a stutter. I don’t care anymore. I’m 38 and proud of my stutter. It’s not my whole identity, but it has shaped who I am today and how I value my existence on earth. In other wor...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
1 points

yes! you have to try your best to build the idea in your head that you *want* stutter. most of us stutter simply because we don't want to. If you can go out of your way to speak as much as you can, an...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
1 points

There was a poster in my speech therapists office that I always liked. “Just because you are bad fluency day, it doesn’t mean that today is a bad day. Just because you are having a good fluency day, i...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideCycles & RandomnessHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
1 points

There was a poster in my speech therapists office that I always liked. “Just because you are bad fluency day, it doesn’t mean that today is a bad day. Just because you are having a good fluency day, i...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideCycles & RandomnessHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
2 points

Honestly this is all very true. My last SLP took a CBT approach to our therapy and really helped me let go of some of the internalized shame I’ve built up over the years. A lot of it is mental, but it...

Therapy & ProfessionalCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Therapy ExperiencesTrauma & PsychologicalMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
2 points

Yeah, some people laugh when blind people bump into things, others make jokes about overweight people and others point and laugh at people with colostomy bags.... there is a small percentage of people...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
5 points

The OP is bullying themselves. Many people who stutter choose to make their own life worse by destroying their own self-esteem with imagined judgements of others. Bullying is horrible, no matter who ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift