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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
6 points

This forum has many incel-like people who don't want to take ownership of their happiness. They prefer to wallow in self-pity instead of actually doing anything positive to change their lives. And the...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
6 points

I never said my life is happy. I have some good days and some bad days like every normal person. I have a severe disability but I am trying to live my life. That is how normal people live with a ...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
-2 points

Do you have any idea how self-confidence overcomes the negative psychological impact of stuttering?...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
13 points

As someone who stutters, and also had multiple long term relationships and also dated multiple girls, I completely disagree with this post. The McDonalds kiosk thing, they are there for convenience,...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
-1 points

No, I just point out that the stutterers who are happiest are the ones who take ownership of their situation and the ones who are most unhappy cling to victim-hood while doing nothing to change their ...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
8 points

I am all for accepting stuttering. Its the best thing I have ever done for my mental health. You can even do that without being delusional and mentally ill trust me. You can be a normal person and ...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
3 points

The confidence is a lot easier to fix than the stutter...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
28 points

Can you give some examples of the toxic positivity? I have not seen much of this myself. I see a lot of stutterers that come here and expect something resembling a solution. And then they get frustr...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
7 points

True dat - but then even using the self serve just be confident in your choice. "I'm using it because I prefer it." End of. Confidence is your own choices is what's sexy. Not necessarily makign the ...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
3 points

well not necessarily, girls don’t care about your stutter (for the most part), they care about confidence. Improving your speech will improve confidence naturally, but you can use confidence even with...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
0 points

yeah but they are mutually exclusive, just bc you stutter doesn’t mean your confidence is going to be low. You can still stutter and have high confidence...

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commentr/stutteringMar 20, 2026
1 points

I think it'll still help you. I was also taking one with b6 and it still worked, but I switched to one without b6 after learning about it. My guess is that 5htp without b6 might work better? Nowad...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
30 points

I always say this, the stutter is never the turn off, the lack of confidence is ...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
43 points

Girls love confidence homie. That's for everything we do as men. Stuttering doesn't make a difference. It's how you deal with it and let it own you or not. Unfortunately, this shit has a sign strapp...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
1 points

hey i was part of my university’s toastmasters club for around 2 years. I thought it initially did help, but I had a severe episode around 2 years ago, which partly caused me to leave. I regret that ...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
2 points

I’m in my second year at college and you’d be amazed how many people don’t care about a stutter. Life is infinitely better after highschool. I’m currently going for pre-med, I’m in a sorority, dating ...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
1 points

Thanks for answering and advice! You are absolutely right about practising in real situations, need to push myself and use supplements for courage....

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
1 points

The effect can varies among ppl imo, ash took a week for me to manifest the effect, 3 days for L-theanine. You can consider combining them with other supplement too for more result. I usually took 3 w...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
6 points

- Loss of an extremely important person who was my age and id know since we were 3yo at the very end of high school - Failed most exams due to grief - Art college - Went off the rails (drinks, drugs...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
6 points

Did my bachelors in linguistics, currently doing a masters in speech and language therapy. Don’t build your future life plans around your stammer, just do what you wanna do ...

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