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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2025
2 points

Thank you! >why does this professor not follow the accommodations you have been allowed? I never spoke to this professor before as i was hesitant to do so, because I thought since I’d only be prese...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2025
1 points

If someone asks a question and the response is very unexpected, the asker may be nervous/confused and may accidentally blurt out something awkward. Similar to laughing at a funeral By gently disclo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2025
1 points

I haven't expanded my vocab, but I know people who have. The author David Mitchell reflects that in his book he wrote where his mc stuttered (Mitchell stutters too) A lot of us call it "word swapping...

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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2025
2 points

Network network network. I know several successful trial attorneys who have stuttered openly in the courtroom. Disclosure of stuttering might help if he knows he's going to stutter. Though I also kn...

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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
1 points

I feel the exact same way, for some reason my stutter is worse when talking on the phone, I can't help it, ill be on the line just completely stuck can't get 1 word out and then just say im sorry and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
1 points

Yeah the lack of eye contact is what can kill a lot of conversations. I used to do therapy for autism and one of the things my therapist stressed was maintaining eye contact....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
1 points

word substitution where I say avoid saying words that I know I will block on. Works okay like 50% of the time where I can get through sentences without stuttering but the other 50% of the time my sent...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Good read. I am currently experiencing many of the same physical issues you described. I have always thought a visible stutter is better than a covert stutter mainly because you end up developing load...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

*I think our problem is we are so scared that people find out that we stammer, more than anything else.* This basically explains my life as well. I hate it when people notice and say "You have a s...

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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Your situation is hard right now, I have been there a lot. I've done presentations where every word has a massive block. If you can overcome that would be amazing, I always persued to overcome. Howeve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Thank you for sharing your story and advice. Yeah, being not fluent in English is one the reasons make me stutter more. And I fully agree with you about the more we are nervous, the more stutter we do...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

Especially while on the phone, I think we train ourselves to do blocks to avoid the repetitions and the weird faces or noises we make...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
1 points

You adapt. You learn workarounds to get what you need. I’m socially awkward but I don’t feel restrained in life....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
12 points

Ahhh it feels like I have written this! Fellow covert over here! So I had to present recently to a very senior board at work. It’s all I thought about for weeks. So I feel your pain. As a covert, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
2 points

When I was a kid, I used to add in an "uh" or "um" before stuttering. Took a long time to stop doing it....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterNov 19, 2025
25 points

Guys I need some ideas . I decided to speak about stuttering as my class presentation in college being a stutterer myself .

Guys I need some ideas . I decided to speak about stuttering as my class presentation in college being a stutterer myself . English is not my native language . I have been a stutterer from my 5 th gr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
3 points

I experience the same with speaking languages other than my native English. My stutter is much worse in a different language. I also attribute it to a confidence issue. I am less confident speaking in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2025
24 points

Happened many times, even with no excuses. Just plain hung up when they’re had to repeat the question to me lmao I tend to block it out from my mind and try again 😂...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2025
4 points

every time OP thinks "too late for that", he must consider the possibility that it might actually be a small win. too late to go back to order the right thing, maybe that's right. but just listen. the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2025
1 points

Yeah it brings me to balance but would probably increase stuttering of some that doesn't have it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution