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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2014
1 points

i think i have pretty similar stuttering problems to you. im also covert and my silent blocks can go from non existent to invasive. you have problems with those specific words because they are used to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & StoppagesMedication Inquiries
postr/StutterJul 11, 2014
1 points

What do you think other people think?

What do you think other people think? For those to whom it's not obvious I have a stutter, I can never really tel what they think of the stops, or my techniques for avoiding them. When I straight up s...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2014
7 points

She gives me such confidence. If it wasn't for her, I would probably stutter much worse actually! She supports me on every sort of "public social event" such as ordering food and things like that. She...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2014
2 points

Hey, I don't post much here, because I don't actually want to be reminded of it, as stuttering literally has NO influence at all! Only if you care about it. I learned to present in front of people by...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2014
1 points

oh jesus, everyday man. I personally look away, but when I look back and they are staring right at me, I freak out internally...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2014
3 points

I work in customer service talking on the phone all day, I had a really bad stutter (I won't do the guys and girls on here the injustice of claiming I have one since I speak perfectly now, though I do...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2014
6 points

I learned how to keep eye contact while speaking to someone and keeping it when I block. It shows non verbally that your stutter doesn't bother you. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2014
2 points

I barely look people in the eye when I speak to them, feels easier to talk that way because I get more nervous if I look at them and my thought pattern kinda disappears...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2014
1 points

I never make eye contact with people. It's really uncommon for me to do so. I'm aware it engages with the listener, but I can't get myself to do so. I believe that if I lose eye contact, they'll also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 22, 2014
6 points

Eye contact during stuttering

Eye contact during stuttering Do you maintain eye contact when you're talking to someone one on one when stuttering (blocks specifically as I consider them the most awkward, but any type is relevant)?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2014
4 points

I feel it burdens me because inside I'm much more sociable. Like, I want to meet people, I want to talk to people. I want to engage random people in conversation. I've spent time with people who can d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 16, 2014
3 points

I speak better now

I speak better now After hanging out with some friends and noticing the way I was talking wasn't working as well as I like, I found a way that helps me speak better. I realized I was thinking about ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2014
1 points

I used to be really terrified of conference calls with customers. That fear has gradually gone down as my confidence in my knowledge has gone up. But I still some times get tripped up. Even though I'm...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2014
1 points

I dont think it would vanish, but you'd need to be really careful not to reassociate any of those negative connotations and feelings towards stuttering that you likely have now. If you could do that, ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 26, 2014
3 points

How to forget you stutter?

How to forget you stutter? I get silent blocks quite a lot. But it appears I have no problem talking when I forget about the stutter. I have stopped giving a fuck recently and this has helped with the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
postr/StutterMay 19, 2014
24 points

[NSFW] [Language] I laughed out loud the first time I saw this. Nothing wrong with laughing at yourself once in awhile. :)

[NSFW] [Language] I laughed out loud the first time I saw this. Nothing wrong with laughing at yourself once in awhile. :) ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2014
2 points

Just tried this and it is slightly more difficult but no noticeable stammer. Would this help? As i have worked on my stammer for a while, with my closest friends they say they don't notice a stammer,...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2014
2 points

Covert stutterers are pretty common. I personally can't handle it. It's just a bad way to live. I've found that people are mostly understanding, and if they're not, then they're not the kind of people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2014
1 points

That was an interesting read. I think deep inside I have not yet accepted that I have a stutter and that is my problem. I try to hide it and therefore it "does not exist", but when I do I get all anxi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
1 points

I don't miss the days where I'd tried to hide my stuttering during interviews. Terrible idea for me, really worsened my anxiety. And it's a bit pointless, eh? If I get the job, they're going to realiz...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career