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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
12 points

For me it looked like confronting my avoidance behaviors over and over again. For example, I used to avoid the phone like the plague and would work myself up every time I needed to use the phone, and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterDec 8, 2025
2 points

do i have a stutter?

do i have a stutter? hi!! i'm 16F, and growing up, i've always had problems with my speech. i know that i used to have the typical repetitive stutter all the time, and while that still happens sometim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

Not all practice needs to be structured. We did “silly story time” where my son would make up a story and I’d pretend to type it up. He loved the attention and didn’t realize he was working on his spe...

Parent & CaregiverAnticipation & Avoidance
Home SupportAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

We found that using puppets unlocked something. It became less “him” speaking and more of a character, which weirdly helped reduce pressure....

Parent & CaregiverAnticipation & Avoidance
Home SupportAvoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
-2 points

She was just being straightforward with what she wanted. I don't see anything wrong in what she said, the only thing is she could have been less blunt with it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
2 points

This is what I do a lot when telling a story lol I envy those that don’t have this issue 😖😩...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
2 points

i used to do this all the time, but now i try to not to hide my stutter. if i feel a block coming i usually tell other people that i need to write something down (i use a text to speech app to help me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
2 points

one time when i was little i couldnt say my last name for a library card so i just pretended i couldnt remember it haha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
1 points

I also substitute words but I find it a bit frustrating that I can't use the word that fits exactly what I'm talking about...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
2 points

i do this too if it’s a specific word with no substitute. ill either spell it out, write it down, feign ignorance, or tell the other person im having a hard time getting the word out and then give the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
13 points

Yes I do this lol. I pretend I've forgotten the word and maybe even give hints to the other person so they can help me "remember" it. Oddly, once they say it, then I can say it too (sometimes perfectl...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 6, 2025
1 points

Anyone else do this?

Anyone else do this? Recently, I've noticed that when I'm experiencing a word "block"(I think that's what it's called), I pretend like I've forgotten the word or the subject at matter. It's that, or I...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
2 points

I once stuttered so hard at an airport bar that the server thought I ordered a totally different drink and when I told him it was the wrong beer he gave it to the guy next to me. So I got a guy free b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & ProlongationsQuality of Life
postr/StutterDec 6, 2025
1 points

Did anyone else only started stuttering right after the covid lockdowns were lifted or because they spent too much time in isolation?

Did anyone else only started stuttering right after the covid lockdowns were lifted or because they spent too much time in isolation? For context: Stuttering was never an issue for me until a few year...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
1 points

If you really don’t think it’s stress/anxiety it is definitely possible to develop a stutter in your adult years. Not that likely but definitely possible. Or you could be just talking to fast & not ta...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterDec 6, 2025
0 points

why do i stutter somuch even though i dont have astutter

why do i stutter somuch even though i dont have astutter im. alwyas tripping over my woords and whenever i talk its just kindof like “hey i like.uhhhh li.like tom.tomatoes annndn fuckmmy fucking chchu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
2 points

>Omg I do the cussing thing and the forgetting the word thing, I always say f\*cking in every hard sentence I know I can’t say normally. My friend think I have such bad memory cause I’m there like “...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
3 points

Omg I do the cussing thing and the forgetting the word thing, I always say f*cking in every hard sentence I know I can’t say normally. My friend think I have such bad memory cause I’m there like “wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/CursingHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
2 points

I (m34) stuttered since I was about 7 years old, but I only got really conscious about it when I went to highschool, around the age of 12. High school always felt like different territory than primary...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStrategic Swearing/Cursing+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
3 points

In 4th grade, my class of like 40 kids played this spelling game where we stood in a circle and the teacher would give a word and one person would start by reciting the first letter and on and on unti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment