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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
4 points

Same thing that tends to happen 50% of the time. I either get mocked or laughed at or called a slur. It’s happened before when I literally trying to become friends with some of my friends friends....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Thank you, my only real issue is that he is distressed when others don't understand and he can't get the word out. He is learning strategies and we are very supportive at home. He is also very soft sp...

Emotional ExperienceParent & CaregiverCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentHome SupportSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

Not really. I don't blame people that dont want to be around me in public while I have spasms and 1 min blocks for a single sentance. Its just a weird sight...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 15, 2026
9 points

About five years ago, I fucked up an opportunity that a lot of us probably wish we had and I don’t know what to do

About five years ago, I fucked up an opportunity that a lot of us probably wish we had and I don’t know what to do So I’ll (M21) just try to keep this as short as possible, but I have a friend who I w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
15 points

Totally agree on this one,i wish I could talk without blockages ,not having to use different words instead of the one i wanted or even rephrasing the whole sentence and to sound like an elementary sch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
23 points

Today i tried to cry after a embarassment...but my eyes were dry...not a single way to express my feelings physically/s...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

Hey fellow stutterer! I cannot describe how passionate about aviation I am. And how many times my stuttering made me cry. Knowing that I love aviation and I am supposed to be up in the air, but at the...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
5 points

I looked at the memorial service flyer again and it turns out the service was on Saturday NOT Sunday. I feel so bad now even though I didn’t want to go, it feels like a weight has been lifted off my s...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 14, 2026
11 points

Am I a bad person for avoiding family events because of my stutter

Am I a bad person for avoiding family events because of my stutter My great-grandma's funeral (she was 101 years old; I really thought she’d live forever 😂) is tomorrow, and I really don’t want to go...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
1 points

Hello! I meant to reply to your message a few weeks ago, but I got super busy with my preparation for the interview. I sincerely wanted to thank you for giving me your perspective of things... I ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance+2 more
postr/StutterMar 14, 2026
12 points

I feel bad for people that have to witness me stutter

I feel bad for people that have to witness me stutter I wish they didn't have to suddenly be like "oh shit this guy has a speech impediment!? Let me pretend like everything is normal so he doesn't fee...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
1 points

I’m just sick of people with minimal stutterers telling those severe or near mute how to live their lives. We all stutter but we may experience more mental distress due to the severity of our situatio...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationSadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
2 points

Thanks for your insight. It's such a nuanced topic that I can ramble on about. All I can say it I wish when I was a child, someone told me it's ok to stutter. I never connected the dots, or it coul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Experiential AssociationShame & EmbarrassmentTreatment Decisions+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
11 points

The fact you think something that never happened to you means it hasn't happened to anyone is delusion. I have been laughed at, imitated and my stutter was recorded and probably shared online so peop...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
4 points

Many people secretly enjoy wallowing in self pity. It's easier to be angry at the world and pretend to be a victim than to take responsibility for your own happiness. If it wasn't stuttering, these s...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
12 points

Your delusions are getting the better of you. No one here is saying having a stutter makes you a loser or you will be a loser forever. We are just saying that stuttering is not a gift and we are no...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
55 points

These people are severely mentally ill. Its sad actually Normal people accept their stutter as disability they have and try to live the best life they can with it. When you start thinking stuttering...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMar 14, 2026
171 points

"I'm glad i stutter" no i'm not.

"I'm glad i stutter" no i'm not. I don't want to talk with people around and they also don't like to talk with me. My friends always ignore me in group activites. I can't attend language classes well ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
1 points

Whenever i feel that i am at a level in my life that i can manage my stammer  , then i consciously to test myself put myself in a situation where i have to speak to an unknown person maybe say a bus d...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
1 points

I see what you mean, but how did you learn to just accept it and be okay with it? I've thought of doing that, but the truth of the matter for me is that my stuttering is a bad condition. So I just don...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment