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postr/StutterJun 8, 2020
25 points

Me and wife planning on starting family.

Me and wife planning on starting family. Now this might seem mundane to most, but I grew up with a severe stutter that became a mild one in adulthood. My father also has a minor stutter. I went to spe...

Causes & VariabilityParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsParent Emotions & GuiltFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2020
1 points

My father was also emotionali abusive he always made fun of me (even infront of my friends and adults) I stutter since I was 2 years old now I am 16 and things are the same my stutter never got worse ...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalFamily Support & ConflictAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 4, 2020
32 points

FML - nobody understands me. I am all by myself. So lucky I have YOU!

FML - nobody understands me. I am all by myself. So lucky I have YOU! I stutter since age 8 (now I have 25). During my childhood I had zero support from my parents (regarding stuttering). My father wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesGenetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency+3 more
postr/StutterMay 3, 2020
11 points

How do you address relatives/people that are afraid of talking to you?

How do you address relatives/people that are afraid of talking to you? Talking with others is already hard enough, but quarantine had made my stutter (which is already severe) exponentially worse. I l...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2020
1 points

It depends on the family member. Some are talkative with me and some don’t know how to get farther than asking me how I am...

Social & Relationships
Family Support & Conflict
postr/StutterApr 24, 2020
5 points

How does your family member support and look at you you and your stuttering and how does it affects you?

How does your family member support and look at you you and your stuttering and how does it affects you? ...

Social & Relationships
Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

They are saying many things out of nowhere that's hurtful recently because of the lockdown, and this happen to be one of them. They were pointing out some words that I stuck on is making them think o...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

It's just it has been years since they mentioned anything about it, they have gone through their denial phase, acceptance phase, making me convert phase, all that, I thought we are settled on my condi...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterMar 25, 2020
2 points

Quarantine week 2: parent got nothing to do so started to pick on my stutter again

Quarantine week 2: parent got nothing to do so started to pick on my stutter again Thanks...

Social & Relationships
Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
1 points

I can't relate to this, but I do know that my stutter is the worst when I am speaking with my parents. I never knew why and I still don't. Now, I have been trying to explain to them my speech journey ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2020
3 points

It’s disappointing to us how we make others feel and in some way let them down, due to inability to have conversations, which we could have if we didn’t stutter, it’s very much true and hard and also ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
3 points

Stuttering and interpersonal support (or lack thereof)?

Stuttering and interpersonal support (or lack thereof)? Hello, first time poster here! I’m wondering what are your experiences with social/familial support with regards to your stuttering? I’m askin...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2020
2 points

Nothing fruitful will come out of this hatred. Yeah you may not have been blessed with the “perfect” genetics but guess what... your parents weren’t blessed with them either. I’m sure if your parents ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & MotivationFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
1 points

Do you feel more pressure to speak fluently?that is how it was with my mother. We talked for hours this past summer about how she made me feel about my speech growing up. It is easier to talk to her n...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2020
14 points

Can't say my boyfriend's name

Can't say my boyfriend's name I really never thought I would be in this situation. I've had a stutter ever since I can remember, I'd say I've always been about 80% fluent with a small handful of diffi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2020
7 points

Lmao. Relatable. My dad rarely asks me stuff because he prob knows it will drain my energy if I have to explain something complex 😂 Luckily I live by myself since many years ago. My dad and my stutte...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerPropositionality & WeightFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2020
12 points

Lmao my dad would just start looking at his phone halfway through a sentence. We don't talk so much anymore - Go figure!...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2020
9 points

My mom would do that too or just cut me off when I was taking too long to tell her something. Felt wonderful 🙄...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2019
0 points

You have to have a core group of family and friends in order to succeed. It sucks that your mom said that to you. I’m tellin ya get some squad that’ll go with you til the ends of the earth and you wil...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterDec 26, 2019
15 points

Hard Time

Hard Time Hey, that's my first post here. Just wanna put some things out. I'm 19 y/o. I have speech block from 6-7 years. I've visited speech therapist before and there is no effect. Found a job th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger+3 more