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postr/StutterJan 4, 2026
6 points

Am I going insane or does talking really fast at times help my stutter?

Am I going insane or does talking really fast at times help my stutter? I know this sounds stupid and very different from the usual advice that people give about talking really slow if you stutter, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2026
1 points

Have you tried desensitization? This was very hard for me. I get it. I think the time presssure got to mel too,, I went into starbucks etc to practice. You are not alone here,...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2026
1 points

I wouldn’t necessarily say I have a stammer/stutter - when I’m sober my speech is pretty clear although I can sometimes speak a bit too fast. However as soon as I’m tipsy or drunk, I find myself stu...

Meds & SubstancesSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Repetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2026
1 points

Also acting like i forgot the proper term works all the time in avoiding blocks 🤣...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
2 points

I may add getting a haircut and thinking what to tell the barber in a closed environment and everyone's listening and you know how the barber likes to chat ! I just got my hair cut after months of pro...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
9 points

Struggling to make friends, starting conversations with new people can be really hard. Even though my stutter is 95% gone now I still struggle to initiate conversations....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
9 points

Add never calling in sick to work even when you’re super ill, because you don’t want to talk on the phone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
2 points

Trying not to stutter is like trying to not think about a pink elephant...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJan 2, 2026
55 points

The stuff we carry alone

The stuff we carry alone I want to name some of the quiet living nightmares that came with my stutter. My aim is to encourage others to share experiences and make visible the stuff we usually carry ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 2, 2026
1 points

Someone told me that I was their role model today.

Someone told me that I was their role model today. I feel honored and humbled. Today I spoke to a teenager outside my speech therapist office. He saw my veteran hat, and asked me how I did it while ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
2 points

I also have a wide vocabulary, totally get you! Its so helpful to be able to substitute a word and still say exactly what you are trying to convey!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
4 points

Hiiii, im a female stutterer. My friends are all cool, theyre understanding of me and never actually brought it up. Dating wise, it’s perfect too. Finding job, i worked in sales was okay i just have t...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
2 points

Aww so nice to hear! I always think about making my listener more comfortable. People don't encounter someone who stutter very often and are unsure how to react. I sometimes joke to put them at ease.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
1 points

Thank you so much for your reply! It’s a relief to hear that this is a shared experience. The 'synonym gap' and the need to rearrange entire sentences can be so exhausting. Your tip about using speci...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2026
1 points

Hi! Growing up I don’t remember dwelling on my stutter or being as aware of it as I am now. I would go through phases every few months where I wouldn’t stutter at all, and some where I would stutter m...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Cycles & RandomnessAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2026
9 points

Me! I'm pretty confident in my stutter but I'm still a shy person lol. But I don't think my stutter has affected me (just me being self conscious but I overcame it). I still have made friends and I st...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2026
22 points

A female stutterer here! I’m a mild stutterer but I have a an unexplained phase sometime when I stutter worse for some reason, lol. I socialize pretty okay but I’m tend to be quiet and somewhat a litt...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 1, 2026
13 points

Stutter making me sound mentally impaired?

Stutter making me sound mentally impaired? Hi everyone, happy new years! I just wanted to share a personal experience that I have struggled with. So my stutter is less repetitions and hard blocks and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2026
3 points

I could have written this post myself. I have this experience exactly. It can be embarrassing because my stutter is a block so often it just seems like I don't know a word. People talk about achieving...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 1, 2026
8 points

The struggle of stuttering in a foreign language

The struggle of stuttering in a foreign language Hi everyone, I wanted to share something I’ve been struggling with lately. I find it much harder to manage my stutter when speaking a foreign language...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment