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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

The realest answer is that it's gotta be a choice that comes from you, from within. But I'll see if I can offer a few ideas. 1. Locus of control. Even with your best efforts, you can't completely pic...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
2 points

hi! 21f here. i’ve also had a “severe” stutter since childhood with no prior history of anything brain related. regarding the success of speech therapy, i’ve noticed over the years that i was not as ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
3 points

I'd try to speak to that fucker, explain him that what he does is just wrong. Or talk to the hr, whatever superiors you have and tell them about it. Use some serious language like "using your disabi...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
6 points

No, it's not normal. Well, in these people's moral compass it's normal, but in general it's not. I don't know how to handle this right. Usually I just do the same towards them ha-ha or ignore them, bu...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
3 points

I’m 35, and I’ve met one peer who stuttered in the wild, and through that SLP, I met some others that were older than me at the time. They had full fledged careers and it was good to have that support...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
4 points

I'm a woman who stutters. Ironically enough, I get more or less the same vibes you seem to from men. As in, they'll approach me, making it clear they find me attractive or interesting or whatever, but...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
1 points

Does anyone want to be seen or simply continue hiding your voice? Every voice, including our stuttering voices, have value. Do you agree or believe there’s no hope for us?...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2026
1 points

I agree that being calm about it helps a lot but also, explain what it is when you can, people tend to misunderstand it for anxiety or some other sort of moral failing so be clear about the nature of ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2026
2 points

Copy that. It’s not even up to others to accommodate, because odds are they ain’t going to. It’s up to us to force acceptance so that others have no option but to listen. It’s like training a horse. Y...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2026
2 points

I love that quote from your speech pathologist. There is no rule from the universe dictating how someone should speak. It’s on others to be accommodating and accepting, not on us to beat ourselves up ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2026
3 points

Talking to people can be scary but fight the urge to hide away. Step out of your comfort zone and don’t apologize for existing. 🤗...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2026
5 points

This. Tell your professor about the stutter. Literally every professor ive had has been understanding about it and didnt dock me marks. If anything, they gave me pity marks lol If you need to escala...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
11 points

You got a bad grade? Speak to your professor privately and explain your disability. You wouldn't take points away from a person in a wheelchair for not standing up....

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
1 points

You can do what you want, mate. You can live the rest of your life being self-pitying or you can choose to have a better outlook. Up to you. > I don’t see what reason there is to wear pride with it ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
4 points

Sounds to me like you fight the good fight. I'm in the same boat. I was active duty and would give trainings and briefings to high up people. Got a lot of shit for it. Also got a lot of respect for it...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2026
1 points

Ok I've stammered 70 years and like any disability can hold you bk if let it. I've ofc experienced the frustration,anger etc but my attitude has been..fk it..tell people i stammer..so know I'm not..an...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2026
2 points

D'ailleurs, j'ai trouvé des pistes concrètes pour s'en sortir et je compte bien m'y mettre, parce que la fuite ça suffit ! Le secret, c'est le **volontariat de basse intensité**. Il faut qu’on "hacke...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2026
6 points

Never stop being open and honest about it. The vast majority are understanding, and those that arent are not worth your time. Youre brave and I look up to you...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2026
7 points

I mentioned this to my employer while I was a cashier at a grocery store. They were all super supportive, and a vast majority of the customers I talked to who heard my stutter didnt say anything or we...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2026
16 points

I mentioned this to my employer while I was a cashier at a grocery store. They were all super supportive, and a vast majority of the customers I talked to who heard my stutter didnt say anything or we...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries