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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2016
1 points

I was talking about "suffering" in a general sense. As in, I've seen many people do this instead of taking action. If you're taking action then great. Was putting it out there for others to check them...

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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2016
1 points

>moping about your "suffering" as I've seen others on different forums do Do not mistake this for any general attitude, though. :) My worries are based on assumptions, as are your "non-worries". ...

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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2016
1 points

I'm unsure what else to say dude. I'm trying to express the importance of constant proactive practice. Instead of moping about your "suffering" as I've seen others on different forums do. Plus, the ...

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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2016
1 points

I didn't want to respond to any posts in this thread but I feel the need to respond to this one. You think you are the way you are because you stutter. What you do not realize is you stutter because ...

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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2016
2 points

Didn't seem aggressive to me. :) >anybody who stutters that sits back and does nothing to help themselves will make zero progress >doing nothing to get out of this rut I don't know that we sh...

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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2016
1 points

Before I start, I've only had 3 hours sleep. Apologies if this sounds aggressive. Ok. To flip what you've said, anybody who stutters that sits back and does nothing to help themselves will make zero ...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
1 points

I gathered that. It's cool. Yes, some people struggle more with their stutter than others. Yes, stuttering is ambiguous. But, no necessary connection between our efforts and results? That's untrue. ...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
1 points

Amen! So many people on this sub have a victim attitude and don't seriously challenge themselves to overcome the issue. Great post!...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2016
1 points

It's a start. Only supposed to be seen as food for thought rather than a concrete tutorial as such. I know there's more to it than that. But believe me, after going through these issues for all of my ...

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postr/StutterAug 7, 2016
8 points

It is possible to overcome stuttering and speak fluently.

It is possible to overcome stuttering and speak fluently. Once you stop seeing stuttering as "I am the way I am because I stutter" and see it as "I stutter because I am the way I am" you can start to ...

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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2016
5 points

I agree with /u/TheTrollingPakistani * Don't hate yourself * Don't think that you are broken/special * Accept it as a fact and just chill out * Don't over-analyse people's reactions * Only assholes ...

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postr/StutterAug 3, 2016
5 points

What helped you to think about stuttering less?

What helped you to think about stuttering less? I am an above average confident guy when I do not think about my stutter. Unfortunately, sometimes when I do think, things get really bad and I become r...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
4 points

Chase the feeling! You said it yourself, you have a job to do. You'll have a job for a very large portion of your life, and you're going to have keep talking on the phone. But that's OK, cause you...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
1 points

Yeah, it's all in your head. I believe that with confidence we can overcome stuttering. Not completely but confidence has a lot to say. For the past 5 years my stutter has been bad, but i have also ha...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
2 points

Exactly. I think my stuttering was caused by my parents getting seperated when i was very young. I had just learned to speak at that time, and sudenly my father left and that caused a LOT of stress in...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
1 points

Exactly what i thought you meant. But if you can find what causes your stress And social tensions. That is a beautiful thing. Because I personally have no clue what causes mine. Im one of the most con...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
1 points

It didn't get better, but you just realise on mdma that you shouldn't care about your stuttering, and therefore it will get better with time....

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
1 points

Good luck with that but I think you're chasing the wind trying to recapture a drug induced stare of mind for normal life. You can work on stuttering related anxiety, but thinking you need to recapture...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
4 points

He's right though...stuttering has a huge psychological component, at least for me. The more stressed or anxious about my fluency I am, the less fluent I tend to be. If I relax and just let go, I'm us...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
2 points

Glad you found this helpful :). J.C.Harrison's "Redefining Stuttering" was an eye opener for me, it suggested the whole new perspective to look at stuttering. If you haven't read it and are interested...

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