What helped you to think about stuttering less?

What helped you to think about stuttering less? I am an above average confident guy when I do not think about my stutter. Unfortunately, sometimes when I do think, things get really bad and I become really really anxious. Is there some way I can think about stuttering less? To me that is almost a sure fire solution to alot of my porblems. What has helped you guys out alot to just not give a shit about your stutter when speaking?