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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

My therapist used to say "Stuttering is what stutterers do when they try not to stutter.", and I believe that. When I am alone, I can talk better than anyone. When I am around someone, talking to so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingExperiential Association
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

(I didn't mean to write a whole tutorial but it just happened somehow) This is good while rewiring your brain to speak fluently.  When you're in this phase you need to avoid "bad incidents" as muc...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureExperiential Association+1 more
postr/StutterOct 28, 2025
2 points

Dating and stuttering

Dating and stuttering Stuttering has been a part of my life since I was 15 or 16y/o, now I am 21 and I have accepted that it's gonna be with forever and I am trying to be more open about it but it fee...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterOct 28, 2025
10 points

One interesting thing I learned from doing Voice Acting while having a stutter.

One interesting thing I learned from doing Voice Acting while having a stutter. When I record a line for voice over, I rarely rarely get a line that I can say without stuttering right off the bat. Som...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 27, 2025
5 points

For one moment I forgot that I stutter, and it feels great

For one moment I forgot that I stutter, and it feels great So my biology teacher handed us a paper with our names and asked us to write our other major (in high schools in my country you need to choos...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesPropositionality & WeightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2025
1 points

Nope. People can employ different coping strategies that may or may not work for them in certain situations. Some coping strategies work for awhile and then fail. Some coping strategies work for some ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2025
1 points

Once I let everyone know I stutter.. my speaking got easier...and better.. I was more relaxed having conversations...I heard that song " I gotta be me" and took inspiration.. ...the pretending tryin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2025
11 points

Yeah I totally empathize- and passing as fluent can be exhausting. It’s our invisible cross to bear so kudos to us all!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2025
5 points

I can tell this helps. A few months ago, I used to play video games with this girl using voice chat (and in English, which isn’t my first language). Even though I hide my stutter pretty well, that ex...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

This is why many stutterers become actors. When you don’t have to be you then the new person who is not you does not stutter. When you become you again then once again you stutter...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
10 points

I'm already going to the left side, stuttering is just 1% of who you are it shouldn't affect the other 99%...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

This guy, in the essence, teaches us to hide our stuttering. Pause for a moment to think, what kind of an effect hiding something that's a part of you has on your mental health and wellbeing. With st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
-1 points

They’re against it because stuttering is their whole life and fixing their stutter will take away their identity. Personally I’ve done the program and stopped stuttering myself. I’m happy it helped y...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
3 points

What worked for me over time was more of a mental shift, a more macro outlook than micro one. Rather than focus on the particular area, I would let it pass, try not to think about it and as that init...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

1) you mentioned that you feel selfish talking about yourself. dont. please be you. the last thing he needs is for you to treat him differently because he stutters. just talk about yourself, let him t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
3 points

I’m mostly an ex-stutterer. Still a few blocks from time to time but nothing major. I got here through 30 years of forcing myself to speak in public. The more I did it, the less I felt defined by my s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You can learn to move away from bitterness and soul destroying cynicism by examining how people with serious facial disfigurements adapt: "Despite the myriad challenges, many individuals with facial ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
6 points

The problem isn’t just the stutter itself. It’s the side effects that come with it. Like you said, if it was *just* the stuttering, then accepting it would be the best option. Idc if it’s considered a...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
8 points

There is no cure. There are ways to adapt to stuttering so that you feel you stutter less and there are also tools that may or may not help you reduce how much you stutter, but there is no cure. Anyon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

I’ve learned that even when we think we’re hiding it or it isn’t obvious, people still notice. They likely already know and if they haven’t ran away yet, it’s probably not a dealbreaker....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking