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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
1 points

Stuttering caused me anxiety for my entire life, feeling different from others and constantly trying to hide it. It was only until I started feeling comfortable saying “please be patient with me, I ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2019
1 points

Don’t beat yourself up, learn from this experience. If they have a problem with your stutter and don’t hire you because of it, then screw them they’re shitty people. Be happy with who you are because ...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2019
2 points

Break the ice! The first thing I say during or before interview is that I have a stutter. You cant hide it so why try hiding it?...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2019
1 points

Fuck it OP you need to own your stutter, I really wish I was able to give my confidence to others. I always feel so bad for stutterers who have one worse than mine. I think that explaining it at the s...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2019
1 points

I know exactly this feeling. I’ve done it before and I even look at the ground and close up as I say it. But I do it less as I’ve got older. Perhaps it would be better to say “thank you for your patie...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2019
1 points

Not wrong at all, I agree. I just like to acknowledge I'm slightly inconveniencing others due to a condition not many people understand or know how to react to. Now, if the other person is being a di...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2019
6 points

Being courteous is one thing, but I don't think apologizing for something you can control is courtesy. You're not doing anything wrong....

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postr/StutterNov 14, 2019
7 points

How to deal with embarrassing moments and/or setbacks and/or bad days

How to deal with embarrassing moments and/or setbacks and/or bad days A lot of people have trouble dealing with bad days, myself included. Its easy to be in a good headspace when things are going well...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2019
23 points

I'm torn on this. I briefly apologize when I'm in the middle of a block because I acknowledge I am either holding up a line, or taking more of a person's time than usually required. I think that's a c...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
3 points

Thats really cool! I dont know how to bring up my stuttering in my workplace without it being awkward and stuttering all the way through what I want to say. I want to inform people more about this, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
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postr/StutterNov 10, 2019
6 points

I have just met someone with a very severe stutter - advice?

I have just met someone with a very severe stutter - advice? Hi everyone, I hope it is alright for me to ask for some advice here, or maybe suggest if there is somewhere better to post this. So here ...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2019
17 points

This could be a valuable teaching moment for the teacher.... tell them you struggle with a stutter and hurtful that was to hear and how hard it must be for the child. It may surprise them and make the...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2019
4 points

Life long stotterer here as well. I can tell you that there is one thing that seems to be “something else” when it comes to stuttering and that is singing. There are many famous examples who can’t spe...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2019
1 points

Talking on the phone is usually the worst nightmare for anyone who stutters. When you are face to face and you block, the other person can see what's happening and they will wait. If it happens on the...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2019
4 points

Hey ik that feeling on the phone where you literally cannot say a single word, and it is even worse then with talking face to face. I might go a little deep here but, what are you going to do if your ...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2019
5 points

My two cents (or whichever currency you prefer): First, you need to stop paying attention to or focusing on what she does or does not do or what she may or may not think. Just simply ignore it. It's ...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
1 points

That's a good way to recognize assholes. In my school there is a kid who shutter, he's really nice and a lot of people have the time to hear him when he talks. Two years ago one of his classmates trie...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
6 points

First and foremost, this is a chance for you to open the eyes of someone who’s obviously ignorant. I appreciate that you’re trying to teach her. I’m reading comments saying that they would dump her im...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
7 points

I for sure use my stutter as an asshole detector. If someone doesn't have time to hear or my stutter, they aren't worth the time in my life, but I can for sure say that 99% of grown adults don't give ...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
11 points

My advice: try to explain it to her as many times as you can. If she still refuses to understand, leave her....

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