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postr/StutterSep 21, 2024
39 points

The worst night of my life

The worst night of my life I don’t know why I’m posting this. I just need to get it off my chest, I guess. Over a year ago now, I was having a great day. I visited my friend at his new job, and then ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict+1 more
postr/StutterSep 5, 2024
12 points

Why did one of my friends once tell me she wanted a stutter?

Why did one of my friends once tell me she wanted a stutter? This was a couple months back but when I was doing work she told me my stutter was cute. I told her thanks but then she said “I wish I had ...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
1 points

I’m sorry to hear this.  I’m not sure how old you are or of what culture you are but one day you’ll feel pity for your family that your family thinks this way towards you, especially when you have ch...

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commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
2 points

Cause they told me so before ... And more .. father always call my brother in things that require like meeting important people , even my brother refuse me to meet with his friends or work in the same...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
2 points

Are you sure it was embarrassing for your father and brother? Or is it how you look at it and think “that is the only way you can look at it- embarrassing “? Imagine, if it would have happened with y...

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commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
1 points

Same here buddy, my father is embarassed of me because i stutter and doesn't participate in social function and party's but he doesn't understand that I don't stutter volunteerly and that i have no co...

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Helplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
0 points

I feel your pain bruh. A lot of my fear and social anxiety comes from my family and how they treat me. Then they make me feel bad for getting mad and blowing up. Mainly because I don’t feel valued or ...

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postr/StutterAug 28, 2024
15 points

Let's be friends, we are all in this together

Let's be friends, we are all in this together I am stutter, I have been thinking of making whatsapp stutterer only group since a long time, If you guys agree, I can make one and later add to this post...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
2 points

I have a severe stutter that started when I started talking for background. My mum was good about it, she'd just let me continue at my pace. My step dad wasn't. He was determined to fix it so he didn...

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Family Support & ConflictShame & EmbarrassmentHome Support
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

We have a communication disorder in a world with people who don’t. People who don’t have a stutter will never understand see the struggles we face day to day; mentally & emotionally. My parents are a ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityFamily Support & ConflictStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
10 points

Yes, I can and I'm a 77f. Its been and still is very challenging. My parents made my childhood a hell by not accepting me and demanding perfection in my weight, speech, and everything else. Despite th...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentGenetic & Family FactorsEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2024
2 points

I feel the same way when I'm around my family, which is why I don't hang out with them as often I should because none of them actually care that I stutter....

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Family Support & ConflictValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2024
3 points

Worst is that my old cosmetology teacher said that we are social creatures and that’s what differentiates us between animals. It wasn’t a personal attack to me but very dehumanizing. And my family sa...

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postr/StutterAug 6, 2024
81 points

Why is stuttering so mocked?

Why is stuttering so mocked? No but seriously, it’s so mocked most people makes it a normal thing. Shown in so many TV shows, and in fact how it’s usually portrayed. Like they are dumb, nervous, or as...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
4 points

The word Incel is pretty severe. Don't give up on personal connections. You have to keep trying! You will find your connections out in the world, not at home or on a screen. Have you tried getting inv...

Social & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
3 points

I wouldn’t give him a hard time about not practicing, he’s going to struggle and all you can do is be supportive of him and let him know it’s ok. Your his family and the best thing you can do for him ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
1 points

I’m also the only sibling that stutters and I have a guilt that I make my brothers look bad. In elementary I was extroverted but over the years you can say my stutters was progressive and my brain sta...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
6 points

I remember those days - I’m much older now - but I remember wanting to talk about it to someone and wanting a hug!! I just wanted acceptance and love!! Maybe try that. Having a stutter is SOOO frustra...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
3 points

Thank you for this comment. As a 18 year old and looking at the current mindset of todays women i thought who would want to marry a guy who stutter and i,m so happy that you got such a supportive part...

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postr/StutterJul 1, 2024
89 points

Why are men on this sub so dismissive to women who stutter?

Why are men on this sub so dismissive to women who stutter? I see all the time on this sub comments from men about how women who stutter have it easier than men because men are expected to be strong l...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict