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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Thank you! Your advice was so on point. I’m definitely trying it next time. I'm replying to your comment now after I got back from the presentation this morning, and honestly… it went better than I e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
1 points

You adapt. You learn workarounds to get what you need. I’m socially awkward but I don’t feel restrained in life....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
1 points

I've just become numb to the humiliation. Did you ever get that? Unfortunately, it's made me almost psychopathic in a social sense. I now find it tremendously difficult to care about what people think...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2025
2 points

Disclosure is better than hiding the elephant in the room. I’ve always disclosed to my hiring managers and it’s always been a non issue for them (or my work colleagues and friends)....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

I would be a social butterfly if I didn’t stutter. Like others have said it’s a constant battle between speaking or staying quiet. But I also take the path of fuck you, this is who I am, so deal with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
3 points

You can still be that person. Life is short bro. I’m not saying it’s easy but I still do these things even though I stutter. It’s who I am. You can’t hide your whole life and wait till we’re 90 and sa...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
11 points

100% my personalities would change dramatically if didn't have stuttering. I like to be extroverted, be with people, hang out, joke around. But the stuttering and anxiety keeps me away from being myse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
0 points

a lot people without stutters fail to impress girls on campus. Part of becoming comfortable with our disability is being able to logically assess our lives and not just incorrectly assign blame to th...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
2 points

Your description seems very binary to me. On / Off. Stutter / Fluent. My view is more of a spectrum. Everyone has disfluencies of some nature, here or there. PWS have disfluency constantly, or near ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
0 points

How do you reconcile accepting yourself as a person who stutters while striving for fluency, which is the absence of stuttering? It's like telling someone it's ok to stutter but the goal of the therap...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
6 points

Because of word substitution and all, I am really fycking sentence structures and sometimes I completely change the meaning. My language proficiency is also degrading day by day because of avoidance b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

You are way way way more than your stutter. If you like a girl, go talk to her. She won’t care about your stutter if she likes you as well. But If you’re trying to get her to like you merely by smoo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
0 points

I think you need to reword this. It's coming off not the way you think. Anyway, just be a nice person out there in the world. You have no idea why someone is attracted or not attracted to you, just l...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
7 points

Just literally be a normal person and treat women as their own person instead of something you have to “impress”....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

I've never understood how fluency and self acceptance are compatible. We are people who stutter. SLPs tell stutterers that who they are is ok, and in the next breath tell them they should to eliminate...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

He espouses voluntary stuttering as a strategy to reduce blocks, avoidance behaviors, and panic/fear associated with speaking. If you define fluency strategies as “artificial ways to hide and/or el...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
0 points

I don't think I said he purports to cure stuttering, only that he seems to focus on fluency which imo is totally the wrong direction as fluency incompatible with acceptance of being a pws. Also hearin...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

Maybe I’m missing how that chunk of his bio describes himself as someone who pretends that stuttering can be cured. In his free podcasts, He speaks at great length about how stuttering will return...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

I have found that if you relapse it means you have a stuttering brain. The brain will automatically goes back to its comfort level. It is both frustrating and annoying. I am a speech pathologist and I...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
0 points

From his own bio: >Georgia licensed and nationally certified speech-language pathologist since 1992, he specializes in the evaluation and treatment of fluency disorders in Atlanta. As a severe stutter...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Positive Therapy TechniquesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride