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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2020
1 points

After class, tell your teacher about it. You may stutter doing it, but it’s better than leaving him/her clueless....

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
3 points

You did good by letting them finish in the time they needed. Focus on the message they're getting through, not the stutter. If they disclose it to you, empathise and ask how it has helped them to ...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
6 points

What a great question. Yes, I think I would prefer it, because their transparency would create an opportunity for them to showcase it in a positive light if they chose to do so. I feel like it's my jo...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
13 points

I just smiled SO big. I also work in healthcare, and I have a stutter. During interviews, I'm often SUPER nervous because you never know if someone will bring it up or pull more attention to it. All...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
3 points

What you did was perfect and more than what a stutter would expect from a recruiter. Only tips that I have are No matter how long the stutter takes to say something, don't finish their sentences f...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
26 points

First of all, thanks for asking in this subreddit, really shows you go above and beyond to get better at your job and also shows a great deal of empathy! To answer your question, I personally have al...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
3 points

1) It is not a mistake at all, as I think that we all need to figure out our own way of coping and managing it, so do not fault yourself for not being open about it. I am guessing that my stutter is s...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
2 points

Your post also made me smile and motivated. Glad to know there’s other people out there like me. I’m sure the other teacher could answer the question better about revealing your stutter but it might ...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
2 points

That is great news. And it is so comforting to hear that you are succeeding in the field regardless of certain setbacks. It was always a dilemma for me whether I should mention that I stutter on my co...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
3 points

I'm just finishing my Education degree and it's something I never thought I would do because of my stutter. Currently teaching in a primary classroom and loving it! Some days are definitely tough if I...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
3 points

Just retired as a cop. I have never let my stutter stop me at least trying what I want to do. Never fear the interactions with people. One of the best skills as a cop is a listener. Far too many cops ...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
1 points

I think the topic is great and a way to educate people. Try and pretend it’s speech day when you’re practicing by standing, continuing even if you stutter, and maybe in front of someone or a mirror. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
1 points

I would say that giving a speech about it is a great idea! Not only are you a subject matter expert, in some ways I think stuttering or stammering during it will in some ways lend even more validity t...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
3 points

If you know them We'll you can ask them how they feel about it. If you don't then just politely let them finish and make sure you keep paying attention to them. It's the worst when people loss interes...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
1 points

For me, It depends on the situation. Like fast food restaurant I would like to hear someone finish the sentence with my order, cuz I don’t want to waste anyone’s time. But if we’re communicating, when...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
1 points

I personally don't mind a little help if I'm really stuck, but many people find it humiliating or annoying when people fill in the words for them, so in general I would just give them time. If you're ...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
1 points

Oh I feel you. Not particularly with my stutter, but rather with mental health - I hate hearing "oh it's so easy for you!" and "you're so lucky" when they see how I manage my life. The thing what help...

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postr/StutterSep 30, 2020
47 points

Just finished my interview

Just finished my interview Just had an important interview that is critical in my career and I feel like a million bucks. Right of the bat I, unapologetically, declared that I have stutter and am not...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
9 points

Covert stutterers have a huge mental and emotional burden. I don't worry about other people hearing me stutter because I can't hide it and I don't stress too much about most speaking situations. That'...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
17 points

I did not cringe! I was proud! Biden went on NATIONAL TV and held his own against someone who was rude and interruptive....

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