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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2020
4 points

Typically I stutter more when I feel like I'm put in the centre of attention, also when I talk to someone that has some kind of power over me. And obviously when i gotta introduce myself and all I can...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2020
1 points

Damn... what a dick move from the officer. Tell me that he at least got 2 presents on his name day from that year on :P...

Social & Relationships
Power Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2020
2 points

How the teacher reacted to you telling her about your stutter sounds like she didn’t believe you and probably thought you were making it up to try and get out of doing it 🤷...

Social & Relationships
Listener ReactionsPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2020
8 points

Whenever I got in trouble at school and got sent to the office, the principal/deans would always assume I’m lying, since I stutter while I’m explaining my side of the story 🙄...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
2 points

That's a great point. Especially for a generally younger person, almost everyone seems like an authority! Or at least someone deserving of basic politeness in speech....

Social & Relationships
Power Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

Generally, people don't stutter at all when speaking to children and only a bit when speaking to friends and family. As you go up the hierachy of unfamiliar and people in authority, stuttering incre...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

Generally, people don't stutter at all when speaking to children and only a bit when speaking to friends and family. As you go up the hierachy of unfamiliar and people in authority, stuttering increas...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I think it's the same with me. If I feel like I'm being judged or evaluated, I stutter a whole lot more. Problem being that I tend to attribute some level of authority or respect to most people older ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
2 points

I always have more trouble speaking to an authority because I have to pay more attention to my words - when I focus on my words too much, I overthink them and stutter. I put pressure on myself to say ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
4 points

I've never thought about this until now but it makes sense. When I talk to someone deemed 'lower' by society such as a cleaner (I don't on purpose, I respect people based on their values) and ask them...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
7 points

For sure. If I feel intimidated or more-than-usual-self conscious I stutter more....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
10 points

Young people make you feel more comfortable, cause you are older than them, you are more self-confident Old people usually dont judge anyone, they are smiling and living a slower life, they also mak...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2020
5 points

I wish my boss understood this. I hate him so much the only thing he ever talks to me about is the way I speak...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterJun 2, 2020
5 points

I don't know if I'll post this elsewhere to avoid being insensitive.

I don't know if I'll post this elsewhere to avoid being insensitive. What if I was black? All the times I've been pulled over and cops escalated the situation because of my stutter. Would I be able to...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
0 points

That's very common and it totally makes sense. Your stutter is highly influenced by the amount of judgement you feel and how much value you give others thoughts of you. A police officer or a boss for ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
3 points

I understand that for me I have more a problem while dealing with people of authority. With friends I don’t have a problem as much. I don’t yet understand why sort of thoughts go in my unconscious tha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
1 points

What about in front of other men? Did you ever feel inadequate around her because you couldn’t do what all other men could?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2020
1 points

I am an Industrial Designer and Project Manager. I am in front of clients often as a lot of my job is to explain the direction of projects, who, what, when, why, etc. as well as leading a team. I sti...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerPublic SpeakingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
1 points

I noticed this about myself too. Usually when I am around certain figureheads or leaders at political conferences, lectures, luncheons, and so on. I automatically feel anxious....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2020
53 points

Talking to GP (Angry)

Talking to GP (Angry) Today I went to my GP, for a general checkup. I havnt been to my GP in several years. I started talking and she just ignored me, didnt even try to listen. She told me to 'write ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerPower Dynamics & Intimidation