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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2021
2 points

My parents force me to call companies sometimes to get rid of my inhibitions. Most of the customer service people are fine, the only stutterphobes I've encountered were government workers who were oft...

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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2021
2 points

I am so sorry you are dealing with this... I advise that you tell people on the phone that you stutter so they don't think anything else is going on. It may help you to know that they are expecting it...

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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
2 points

It will be very difficult but when you get up to present just tell the audience, “you may not know me as someone that stutters but I’ve been stuttering lately and may stutter a little bit in this pres...

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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
3 points

I can't agree more on all you illustrated to me cuz they are also haunting in my mind! But now I'm not shy and speaking quiet, instead, I'm now speaking with a powerful and encouraging voice and some ...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
4 points

I usually say, pardon my stutter and then I go right into whatever I was saying. I actually don't want them to respond to that statement. I want them to think that I think it is so normal that I "skip...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
1 points

For me its been all about confidence and owning my stutter. I began a job this year where I have to talk over a radio and broadcast my voice to literally thousands of people. Is it pretty? No. Do I s...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
2 points

If your place of employment considers stuttering to be "unprofessional" then that's ableism, it's as simple as that. Whether or not stammering is a disability is up for debate and opinions vary from ...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
6 points

No.Actually I'd be glad to introduce myself every single time and if my stutter is revealed,just don't give a fk about it and move on your introductions....

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2021
2 points

Used to bother me but now I look at it like this: my goal is to communicate with the other person. If I am stuttering and they finish my sentence and they actually get the word correct, good. It speed...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2021
4 points

For me I actively like it when people help Me out. I tell people who are closest to me that if they know what I’m going to say just say it. It stops the agony of stuttering and I just find it easier f...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
2 points

Yeah in that case I would definitely politely ask them to let you finish and while it's about both respect and to help you, I would mention the latter as the reason since it will go over better with t...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
5 points

It really depends on the person, situation, and if the person knows you stutter or not and how often they do it. If it's once or twice that's fine. People even do that to other people who don't stutte...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
3 points

Keep it up! No rational, decent person cares if you stutter. Say what you want to say....

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2021
3 points

Lexapro shouldn't be an issue but if you try something new tell your psych to make sure it doesn't affect motor functions as a side effect. If you can find a speech and language pathologist (SLP) who ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2021
1 points

Nothing good comes from your comfort zone king/queen. People that make you feel bad for stuttering should not hold you back. You have a voice for a reason, let yourself be heard....

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2021
2 points

Yes. I'm seasoned enough in the field enough to interview other engineers. I would say I've given at least 20 or so interviews (Probably more). It's actually not that bad cause I just ask questions an...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2021
1 points

Disclose your stutter first, even a stutterphobe will feel some guilt in laughing at you if you do this. Always have a backup plan, it can be anything from working at the grocery store to a job offer ...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2021
1 points

Best advice I can give is to keep in mind that you are leaving, and won't have to see him ever again. Don't fear embarrasing yourself, especially if you two have a decent relationship. People are far ...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2021
1 points

Here's what I would do (and have done). 1. Write a letter of resignation. This provides a formal record of termination of contract (if you have one). The least it needs is your last day of work. Y...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2021
8 points

Does your boss already know your stutter? I disclosed my stutter to my line manager so she wouldn't misinterpret this as me being nervous or scared all the time when it's just a thing about me. She di...

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