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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2022
1 points

Not that she’s a bad person, but this is what I think everyone’s disgruntled parents intuitively thought was wrong with us. It’s most certain not “thinking too fast” it’s your job now to try and educ...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2022
1 points

When I realised making fun of someone’s stutter was a great show of character. It became easier to tell who was a good person or not. And I’ve been fortunate enough to have convinced every adult/pare...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2022
16 points

Just Bring It, Stutter or No Stutter (Podcast episode)

Just Bring It, Stutter or No Stutter (Podcast episode) Stutter with Confidence #63 with Gina Corley Just Bring It, Stutter or No Stutter I had a lot of fun speaking with pharmacist Gina Corley from ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2022
1 points

I was able to use it to my advantage. Whenever I would trip up I would explain my stutter and most of the time they would be very understanding. They would take the time to listen to what I had to say...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2022
1 points

Yes, this does happen and it’s really dumb. I’ve literally been told it’s why and other times I haven’t been flat out told but it’s pretty obvious that is why. I’m glad they show me who they are up fr...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2022
1 points

Me. I have a great husband, I’m a serial C level employee ( first became a CFO at 28). I have a great group of friends. I even recently gave a closing keynote in front of 350 people about overcoming a...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2022
1 points

My take is that if your opposites act rude towards you bc you stutter then just let him go and that is not your problem at all. If you get mad at them you are just making urself angry with others' fau...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
5 points

Exactly what u/ColterR123 said, it works for me! It's disarming, and makes you real / relateable. Everyone has someothing they're super scared others will notice - our thing is just more noticeable. T...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
1 points

You're right. It doesn't matter one bit. Ive been working full time for 20 years in an office job and its never mattered. Some people will be assholes and finish your sentences, etc but don't worry...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
3 points

Yes I relate so much to this. I do this as well and it makes them feel uncomfortable more so than me and helps a lot with fluency( I know this may sound a bit mean,using their discomfort to help mysel...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
1 points

Dear God, I salute to you sir. Taking to strangers all day everyday could fix a stutterer's anxiety....

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
3 points

(Sigh)… I am a 48 year old stutterer. I have been down this path… I know your pain. All of us do… To stutter is to know daily struggle and embarrassment and defeat like few others will. Sounds like yo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
1 points

Be moderate in how you do this, but like what the other commenter said, lessen the importance of other people when talking to them. Don't be a dick because you might be get TOO comfortable lol, but j...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
3 points

Over the years I’ve been able to develop a, simply put- “I don’t give a fuck” attitude. You have a voice. You have something to offer the world. Be confident in those situations, be brave. It can be h...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
7 points

What I've found is most mature people don't care whether we stutter or not. I recently had a interview for an internship (couldn't take it due to conflict of hours) but it went really well, which was...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Mindset shiftEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
9 points

Please do not give up. I've had my stutter since age 5. These are my accomplishments: 1. Was talked out of suicide 2. High school graduate 3. Joined US Air Force - Honorable Discharge 4. Att...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
2 points

This is the answer. Wait patiently and keep good eye contact. Behave EXACTLY as you would if he were not stuttering. This will be challenging at first, but will get easier!...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
4 points

You need and deserve a much more understanding and patient employer who won't turn your stutter into a big deal. I wouldn't go back! You can still be confident regardless of stuttering. There's no nee...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2022
3 points

No reaction at all + Listening carefully and paying attention on what they’re saying - meaning treating them like how i wanted to be treated when i talk....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2022
3 points

Stay in it! Tell your guidance counselor you stutter. Tell your teacher, and then hopefully the class too. If you think this is a terrible idea, look up all the famous actors who stutter - but wer...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries