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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2022
3 points

100% tell them from the beginning. Tell them ahead of time if there's a way (if you're talking via email or anything, it's easy - "btw, I should let you know that I stutter. It doesn't interfere with ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2022
5 points

100% this is the way to think. They may be confused or embarrassed at first, but that's literally momentary. It's not really any different than if you had an accent they hadn't heard before. Keep tal...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2022
4 points

Don't let it define you. You are not your stutter. You will find friends who like you for you. You'll find lovers who love you for you. We're lucky, we're in a time where a lot of conversation is do...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2022
22 points

I have a moderate stutter & I sat next to a person with a severe stutter in high school. During start of the semester introductions, he ofc had trouble saying his name & when I had trouble say...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2022
57 points

It’s easier said than done, but don’t let people do this shit. I got to turn this around on someone once and I’ll never forget it. I sat down next to a girl at dinner after a volleyball game and int...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2022
14 points

It’s usually used as the butt of jokes, whenever it is used. I always use the “you wouldn’t make fun of a guy in a wheel chair, so why are you making fun of the way I talk” and that often times shuts ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2022
1 points

In this boat for the last 5-10 years now. I find that if I tell the person I’m meeting up front that i have a stutter than it’s a lot easier to introduce myself (name and all) and get the conversatio...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2022
6 points

Just break the ice. Say I have a speech impediment so don't mind me and henceforth you can speak the way you want. If you stutter they'll understand unless they're assholes....

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2022
4 points

I agree! Learn to tell people “please be patient bc I stutter” and then go about your introduction 🙂 People will probably think you are hella courageous. You got this!...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2022
2 points

To make people feel bad, I tell them, I have a neurological condition that affects my speech but thanks for noticing. I'm not lying and people feel bad for using me a joke....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
26 points

Yes but it depends on the person though. If he or she was being a bitch to me and making fun of me about it then *THEY'RE DEFINITELY GETTING IT!!!*...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
3 points

I hear you. It's really hard not to let it get to you. I tend to overcompensate and push myself to be the one they have to listen to but I still end up having to teach people how to listen. What I d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
-1 points

My duty is done Sadly, there’s a lot of truth in it as well. If you can’t stand up for yourself verbally it’s significantly more difficult to put a stop to it. Most people still feel very uncomfor...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2022
9 points

I know you might get in trouble but honestly I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself! Way to go! As someone who stutters I understand the frustration when I can't talk because other people are t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2022
3 points

My son is a person who stutters. He’s 18 and will be going to college in Fall 2022. He’s done speech therapy when he was younger. Anyway I’ve always told him he has other ways to communicate with p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2022
7 points

It helps to advocate for yourself. Tell the staff you have a stutter....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
1 points

Well kind of yes I was crossing an army check point and I did not have my id card so i planned to tell them that I’m an army brat and i live inside the cantonment(i do this alot lol), but little did ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
10 points

I was at a cool, really hip secondhand store. The clerk was very happy to see me and "ooh hello hello! How Nice of you to be here today! welcome! did you find anything at your liking? I hope you di...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2022
1 points

Nope. Only time I ever mention stuttering is if they bring it up. Otherwise most people I’ve encountered seem familiar with stuttering and tend to let me speak....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2022
1 points

My stutter is pretty intermittent so I usually wait and see if I actually stutter, and then pause to briefly explain (e.g., "Excuse me, I have a speech impairment" \[pause, breathe, restart problemati...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesBlocks & Stoppages