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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
10 points

I saw this in a couple of posts already and I genuinely wonder why fellow stutterers feel this way. Not being able to express and not having are totally different things. In my case I would argue ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

I still think its pointless anyway since confidence is often mistaken for proper fluency, you could make your point and people will still say or think ‘oh he can’t get his words out he doesn’t know wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

People also describe be as very approachable. Even have asked me to speak with people with, and I quote, my “aura of care”....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

Yeah since we are essentially relying on peoples character and hoping they are decent enough to acknowledge you regardless of disabilities, I think me and you built a very strong trait in the sense of...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
2 points

What type of judgement is that? I’ve also developed a very good judgement on first impressions. But I attribute it more on a turbulent romantic periods which led me to value actions more than words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

I have to agree with this, i think the avoiding arguments is a big plus, people who speak normally will argue just for the sake of arguing. People with a stutter don’t have the energy to try argue bac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
3 points

- Quick Wit - I speak less than average so when I do it’s usually a good addition. Probably a good sense of humour since it’s also a way for people to like me. - Avoidance of arguments (especially ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 17, 2026
1 points

Stuttering channel and Shadow work

Stuttering channel and Shadow work Hey Everyone! Im Patryk and I’ve been stuttering since I was a child and struggled with social anxiety for a long time. At the beginning of this year, I started my ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterJan 16, 2026
14 points

Sharing the tee-up I use for bigger presentations at work

Sharing the tee-up I use for bigger presentations at work I opened a presentation at work yesterday with a quick intro and “good news folks. some additional pizzaz I have for you today is my stutter. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 15, 2026
10 points

Invisible or visible disability? Is it even a disability at all?

Invisible or visible disability? Is it even a disability at all? Was having a conversation with my mum about this. I was saying that stuttering can be an invisible disability because the person might ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2026
1 points

Most importantly don’t worry too much about it. I you pay attention to other people you would also notice that they often repeat a word or just say “ughhh” while they are thinking the next word. For ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2026
1 points

I found that I don't really stutter when I'm not thinking about stuttering at all (which is kinda rare)...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
1 points

You'll find that it's the people who make you stutter because you're not fully comfortable around them. I don't really stutter around my close friends and family anymore, might get a knee perk here an...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
2 points

Hah, minimal is possible, but to be honest it wouldn’t matter. You’ll look the same amount of “weird” if it’s minimal or a bit more. No way to hide it, so no point in trying. Be confident with yoursel...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
6 points

You are gonna stutter, focus on answering the questions. No use avoiding the rain when you are already completely wet. Ppl will feel sympathetic, it's much like how you feel when a person is limpi...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
5 points

I agree it's matter of mindset. If you keep thinking about it you are just overthinking all the ways it could go wrong. For me what seems to work is that I just don't care about 99% of the people who ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2026
3 points

Last month I presented online in front of 200+ people. I was asked to cover for my manager in an all-hands meeting in front of the entire company. I had a choice. I could have easily said that I don...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2026
1 points

I don't get why you wouldn't have personality? Instead of going out in high-school I've spent numerous evenings watching youtube videos and TV series developing way deeper interests than others and ha...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2026
2 points

How do you get over them thinking you have something to hide due to being "so nervous"*? *People tell me "Oh yeah, I stutter when I'm really nervous too." No no, this is just my voice....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2026
1 points

I don’t want laws in place. I don’t want to have a legal disability. It would hamper my life/job. I prefer to go through life pretending I don’t stutter- I haven’t had any real issues come up by doing...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingAccess & Rights