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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
4 points

dropping out is probably only going to make things a lot worse, including your fear. What I hear a lot of professionals who stutter tell me what helps them is they practice like crazy and really make...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2014
1 points

You should sit down with someone and have them ask you questions. Then you can practice answers in a more comfortable environment. You can hear what you might stutter on and adjust accordingly for the...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2014
1 points

If you have not already sent it, in your thank you note (which you should always send for every interview) in addition to the usual reiteration of your interest in the position and the highlights of y...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2014
2 points

That's a very good point! Maybe that's something else I can try writing soon. I think the overarching idea still prevails, but that's still a very nerve-wracking experience. I once had an ex-SO's da...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
5 points

Practice. I am an extremely unsocial person typically and I have had to both do and give an interview. The best advice is to know what you will need to say and be prepared. If you know everything t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2014
4 points

I never, ever, stutter when I talk to myself -- in the car, late at night, in the office, whatever. It's annoying when you're going to a meeting and you know you have to introduce yourself. So you spe...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposurePreparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2014
1 points

If you do introductions the first day of class introduce yourself followed by some witty line involving you're a person who stutters. It saves a lot of stress from the rest of the semester, may be an ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHumor & Community ToneAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2014
2 points

Saying "fuck" expressively in the middle of a block while talking to assorted authority figures like parents, principals, teachers, and so on, as a subconscious way to get past the block. ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Strategic Swearing/CursingStress & Fight/FlightPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2014
4 points

I definitely feel you on this one. Especially in a group setting, like when the group is asked to introduce themselves. As soon as the leader says "Let's go around the room..." my heart starts beati...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2014
1 points

I usually stutter when I'm expected to talk. Like when I'm in a group of friends or a meeting at work and everyone looks at me because i said something like, "Oh I have an idea". They'll look at me ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2014
1 points

I talk to myself in the car a lot. I had an interview the other week, and I had to drive three hours to get to it. So I spent most of that drive asking myself interview questions and answering them. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2014
6 points

I recently got a book called ["Self Therapy for the Stutterer"](http://www.amazon.com/Self-Therapy-Stutterer-Malcolm-Fraser/dp/0933388454) and it has various exercises broken down into nine (I think)...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2014
3 points

They're always the highest when I have to speak to someone in authority -- passport control, police officers, city/state officials behind glass in offices who never seem to smile. Usually these involv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2014
2 points

It really is, yeah. I had no choice but do the presentation (mandatory), and I have to train it because my final presentation to graduate will be very important. :)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2014
2 points

Law school works a bit different here. See a few posts below for an explaination. It was quite challenging for me to go through law school. I discussed my stuttering with the school board before app...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifePreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2014
2 points

I had a speech class in college. I was really nervous about it. But honestly, I only had to speak infront of the class for my 5 speeches during the year. The first one your really nervous, and it actu...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
School & Academic LifePreparation & RehearsalPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2014
2 points

I took speech in college a few years ago. It really depends on your professor and you. I talked to mine the first day to let him know I stutter. They are usually understanding and will offer alternat...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifePreparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2014
2 points

I had to take it as a pre-requisite. Definitely wouldn't have taken it on my own free will. I approached it with a positive attitude though. As some people have mentioned, it's much easier to inform t...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2014
2 points

It's a good idea to put yourself in situations when you are forced to speak. Just let the instructor know you have the impediment....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2014
2 points

I have a similar method if anyone wants to try it out. Five-six months ago, I couldn't say my name for the life of me. It was frustrating as hell 'cause you look like an idiot when you can't even say ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesPreparation & Rehearsal