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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
3 points

If you live in the U.S., there are local chapters you can check out from the National Stuttering Association [https://westutter.org/chapters/](https://westutter.org/chapters/). We also have a Discord ...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

I’m both in speech therapy as of now and go to a few local support groups that meets monthly virtually. Speech therapy and the support group allowed me to be vulnerable and my authentic self while not...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
6 points

I went to a local meeting (called Chapters) for people who stutter by the NSA for the first time this past month. It was really cool. I had never met someone else who had a stutter, then suddenly I wa...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

See if you can find a support group. If you life in the US, there might be a national stuttering association chapter near you. I would try to find and connect with the people who stutter. That and fin...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

i was thinking about trying to join a support group or something along those lines. Yeah exactly i want to experience more stuff in life i’m fed up of letting my stutter hold me back...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

For me, support groups were life changing. As someone who ran one for a few years, i can tell you it really depends on the person and where their mindset currently is. I initially blew off the idea ...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
14 points

Being 18, starting college, is a huge transition and I totally understand the feeling of being overwhelmed and hopelessness. The avoidances...not speaking in class, at work are all reinforcing the fe...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
-1 points

THANK YOU!!!! Finally someone who didn't feel offended, I am just thinking about my kids in future.. I don't want them to deal with social anxiety and have struggle making friends or finding love, it ...

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
2 points

I promise promise that you haven’t. Any woman who finds you boring for your lack of speedy delivery is not truly interested in *you*....

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
1 points

abi bende ki olay çok garip ya tanımadıgım biriyle konuşurken hiç takılmıyorum 0 ama biraz tanışıp samimi olduktan sonra başlıyo çok kötü amına koyim şu an arkadaş diyebilecegimi 2 kişi var onlardanda...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
2 points

I was in same situation as you are now. I have stutter my whole life. I have a problem that i want to treat it, i had some moments when i self motivated my self but now while i want to practice, somet...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

I already do accept "weird" people. Hence why I used quotation marks. If someone treats me with respect, I will reciprocate it My problem is that society groups us in the same group as someone who do...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

The problem is that I can't get along with groups of people, I am fine with many people 1 to 1. So when they have the opportunity to hang out with the entire group (most of whom don't like me) vs. me ...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

I think its disappointing how we have to compensate - for instance I am relatively good looking, witty, intelligent, and take care of myself (dress well and workout) and I can only seem to befriend th...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

I do love myself. I know what my strengths are and I appreciate myself for my individual qualities. The problem is that it doesn't change how difficult it is for me to connect with people socially, a...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Could be the case, but I've yet to meet a PwS who could be considered as charismatic or a "social butterfly". Then again, I haven't met that many PwS in the first place....

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2022
2 points

Being a stutterer has helped me build long-lasting and real friendships and relations over my lifetime. It makes sense if you think about it. The people that are kind, willing to listen and are patien...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2022
1 points

Start accepting the “weird” people. They tend to be more accepting of us. The reality is that most people need a little patience to socialize with us at first. I think it only makes sense that we ne...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2022
6 points

Absolutely not. I was at the NSA conference at Newport Beach a few weeks ago. Filled with stuttering social butterflies. That being said, it's entirely possible that you stutter AND you're not very s...

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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

Thanks for sharing I felt the same and when I got involved in peer support I had a sense that I was with people that gave me a feeling of community....

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