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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
3 points

I've been with my wife a very long time. The first thing I ever said to her was "Hello." I never spoke to girls when I was young; between concern over stuttering, not being as big as others dudes my...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
7 points

It could just be that you just get nervous around girls, it’s a very common thing. That’s how I was when I was first attempting to talk to girls, I could never get anything out cause girls can be terr...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
3 points

Wherever works best for you. Also I noticed that a lot of people speak really fast especially when you are trying to order something or book an appointment over the phone. I always take my time, don’t...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
9 points

I'd tell HR. I used to have a toxic job where they'd always pick on that and I regret not speaking up. Also telling HR is documenting it....

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
2 points

I sometimes say just "Mam" and people around me keep wondering why I do that :). Thank you for the advice. I'll work on creating positive memories....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
23 points

If I may offer a piece or two of advice? First and foremost. Don't go looking for a confrontation. Especially at work. Tell the coworker that you'd prefer they don't joke about your stuttering. Don't...

Coping & AdvocacyMeta
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesNot About Stuttering
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
5 points

I have stuttered in middle school, high school, and college. Your best weapon will ultimately be disclosing your stutter, this will ease your nerves and save you from any perceived judgements. Non...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
3 points

Best advice is to just approach people and face your fear. In 4 years you will finish high school and you will eventually forget everyone you went to school with. So SAY what you WANT. No matter how m...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
4 points

Many of a times it feels that they didn’t understand me so are asking me to repeat. But there is always some bloody m*****ker who enjoys that I stutter. First I use to call it out, reply back then one...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

Yes 😭 I used to use a different name in starbucks and would avoid meeting new people. I've had people laugh and say things like 'did you forget your name?' as they don't realise that I have a stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
2 points

Don't know about research going on but there is The Stuttering Foundation that exist...They do alot of Advocating for People who stutter...They even have Convention Events...Stutterers from all states...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Research & ResourcesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

Yes. Very true. This is something very crucial that I feel needs to be addressed. I'm an adult stutterer and I'm prepping to do some volunteer work like workshops and awareness camps to address this. ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Research & ResourcesSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
1 points

Thats brutal. Been there before. In previous interviews I've opened with, "Just to let you know, I stutter. It isn't a big deal, and it has taught me a lot of patience and grit, which I think will ben...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
2 points

I feel it.. I applied to Walmart to and the hiring manager was kinda an asshole. When my words got stuck ,she keep saying things like " you don't know what shift you?" "Are you sure you want to work h...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
1 points

if it helps at all, i usually preface job interviews with "i have a chronic, uncontrollable stutter. this is a medical condition. please be patient with me." or something along those lines. in school,...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
9 points

Stuttering does suck man. In a situation like this it’s easy to think everyone is out to make fun of you and the embarrassment weighing down on you feels permanent, but when I face shit like this I li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
1 points

Non ci avevo mai pensato a prendere tempo quando mi capita di bloccarmi, di solito tendo sempre a mascherare il tutto nei modi più imbarazzanti possibili e questo provocava solo ancora più ansia e anc...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
1 points

Per me gli esami sono i momenti peggiori, tra l'altro il mio corso di studi è molto incentrato sul parlare, perciò non posso proprio scappare. Ti capisco sul fatto che sia un grosso problema dal punto...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
1 points

I have troubles saying that I stutter, not because I don't like self disclosure, but because I have a problem with that specific word either in English or in Italian, my mother tongue (btw in Italian ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
19 points

I was interviewing for a job teaching. They asked me if I was confident with the job because of my stutter. I just said "yeah definitely. If they don't understand the first time I say it. They should ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career