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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
1 points

3 years ago, I was also in the same boat with you. the best thing I can advise is to just relax and try to be yourself, not paying attention to your stuttering. I'm sure there will be understanding pe...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
1 points

Do not try to hide it. In fact, mention it in the first conversation you have with everyone you meet. Nothing fancy, just “I have a stutter”. Pursue your interests and behave as if you don’t have a ...

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postr/StutterAug 28, 2023
1 points

Starting College Tmrw

Starting College Tmrw I start college tmrw and I’m freaking out. I’ve had a moderate stutter that comes and goes but I’m really self conscious about it. I’m scared about introducing myself and meeting...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
1 points

This hits deep. Very similar situation/ feeling with my stutter. Self conscious and low self esteem are just the results from past trauma from stutter. Don’t let it solely define your life. If you s...

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

¿You stutter when alone the SAME as talking to a BIG autorithy? ¿You stutter when alone on everyword or concept? ¿or there are specific words that you stutter the most? Try to desglose your problem i...

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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
1 points

Even I noticed my tongue slipping when I'm alone. I've never stuttered but my habits of stuttering has caused other issues. I will strongly suggest to speak fluently at this stage. Even if it is readi...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

Right you can talk to people without fearing of stuttering but I'm not shy, I like talking to people just stuttering makes it so tiring to talk...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

Apply for the job I actually want to do. Be way more social and make friends instead of shutting myself away and being incredibly isolated. And have good conversations with people that I look up to an...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
2 points

You make friends just like anyone else, you're a human being and if people don't respect that then fuck them in all honesty. Messages are open if you wanna talk bud...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2023
2 points

But what charisma can do when you don't even get to express yourself fully when you start talking im talking about making new friends I have accepted i won't be able to make new friends going forward...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
1 points

Awesome idea! However, you do not have to reinvent the wheel if you want to meet up with other people who stutter. Check out The National Stuttering Association chapter list: https://westutter.org...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
2 points

I am 45 and have had to brave it all till now. As I read through, I saw someone speaking from the debt of his heart. Your story aptly captures mine, but I told myself I will keep pushing. With marriag...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
3 points

Hello! I recommend you seek out your local National Stuttering Association Chapter. Self-help does wonders for those social/emotional aspects you are wanting help with. Additionally there is a disco...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2023
3 points

Don’t define yourself by your stutter. Embrace your weirdness. Begin a hobby or study a topic that is considered weird by many people, e.g. building props from video games, try out LARP, … the point i...

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postr/StutterAug 12, 2023
13 points

I dont have friends

I dont have friends Hi, im a sophomore in high school, and i feel like an alien in my class. Im so terribly scared of speaking that i didnt make a single friend through the whole of freshman year, hel...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
1 points

I’m also from upstate NY and outside of my family, I met two stutterers my freshman of college. The next one was within this past year after I graduated 😅 He’s the chief interventional radiologist so...

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postr/StutterAug 8, 2023
25 points

almost zero social life

almost zero social life My stuttering is quite severe. And due to it I almost isolated from world around. Honestly it didn't bother me for a long time because I have a lot of hobbies and things to do ...

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postr/StutterAug 7, 2023
9 points

Are there any stutter focused meme pages out there on Instagram?

Are there any stutter focused meme pages out there on Instagram? I was on a funny introvert meme page just now when I realized I’ve never seen a stutter meme page and couldn’t find one. Bummer! Would...

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postr/StutterAug 4, 2023
35 points

Stutter and relationship

Stutter and relationship Hi everyone. Does anyone feel that their stutter is a barrier to find a relationship or to make friends? Im 26 and have had my stutter for most of my life. I’ve found that ...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
7 points

As someone who thinks of themself as a introverted extrovert, I can imagine why you’ve not met any other stutters. They won’t approach you just like you won’t approach them (coming from my own experie...

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