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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
3 points

People with a mild stutter be like: "just be yourself"...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
4 points

I'm a former chronic stutterer who largely doesn't anymore and certainly never worries about public speaking even when I occasionally do. I see poor self confidence as a byproduct of stuttering not a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

I agree it's a part; IMO a small part, a building block per se. There are so many other aspects to the psychological side of stuttering that need to be addressed. I don't know if self-confidence alo...

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postr/StutterMar 21, 2026
3 points

Performance anxiety

Performance anxiety Hello everyone, I’ve had a stutter since I was a child, but it didn’t really become a serious problem until I was around 14. Since then, I’ve developed what I think is performance...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
11 points

You calling your stutter (and ours) a mere "confidence issue" is the problem. Venting is not wallowing in self pity. You can pretend you don't actually stutter all you want, but eventually you have to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
5 points

Not everyone is going to approach their stutter the same way. Some choose to overly embrace it, while others might do whatever they can to hide it If toxic positivity is the best way that a person ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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postr/StutterMar 21, 2026
14 points

Stuttering is killing me

Stuttering is killing me I speak with so much anger in me even I doesn't want that. I can’t even find the energy to open my mouth and talk. I get frustrated when the words won’t come out. I isolate my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
postr/StutterMar 21, 2026
5 points

Are these symptoms typical with stuttering?

Are these symptoms typical with stuttering? I’m 15F and I’ve been stuttering since I was eight. I have a severe stutter that can fluctuate to a moderate one on a good day. Sometimes I drool when I st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterMar 20, 2026
6 points

Any advice on speech therapy?

Any advice on speech therapy? I’m 25m and I’ve stuttered my whole life. I’ve tried speech therapy as a kid but never really took it seriously. I’ve been having a really hard time lately with just life...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterMar 20, 2026
88 points

I’ve dated multiple women and one thing I realize

I’ve dated multiple women and one thing I realize One thing that made me lose every women I’ve ever loved is, Women get repulsed when your “too insecure” They rather you stutter and have your face scr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
1 points

hey i was part of my university’s toastmasters club for around 2 years. I thought it initially did help, but I had a severe episode around 2 years ago, which partly caused me to leave. I regret that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 20, 2026
7 points

A way to speak fluently

A way to speak fluently So I’ve always had a speech block. Not severe that it’s noticeable but it bothers me on a daily basis like it bothers you also. I’m making this post because I found something i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
1 points

I love it ! I never thought I could do it because everyone told me I couldn't because of my stutter. I facilitate 4 hour PowerPoint presentations and actually I have a great time because I disclosed ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
1 points

I mean I definitely made worst choise to pick a college with only talking to complete exams, but im too close to finish to quit in this moment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
2 points

My experience is that when i dont tell them, they start to say things like "you can start" "go on" or "you can answer other questions if you dont know this one" while im struggling to say the answer w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
1 points

Hi guys so why you guys stop talking my speech? Why you not start communicating with only though text? That is one ways of communication that simple just communicate my writing and text life is short ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2026
7 points

Email her again. That isnt rude. But I'll also say, avoidance isn't going to help you. If you have thoughts/know the answer, prepare yourself and raise your hand sometimes. ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2026
15 points

I use an ice breaker/disclosure statement: "Hi" (this is mu bumper word) "and Good Morning, my name is Pedro Pena and I'll be your trainer for today. I do have a stutter so if I block on any word...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 19, 2026
2 points

Is it a potential relationship deal-breaker if one party stutters?

Is it a potential relationship deal-breaker if one party stutters? Asking cause yeah I’m the party in this case. It’s tough being a man trying to find a woman as it is but the fact that I stutter make...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2026
4 points

i’ve been the same way. my speech is so bad around friends and family, but around strangers it’s better (usually). it’s so strange. recently i’ve been trying to more upfront about it. here’s how i ima...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride