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postr/StutterOct 13, 2016
7 points

Social Anxiety/Awkwardness

Social Anxiety/Awkwardness I've had a couple months were my fluency has been great, but I am becoming frustrated. All the friends I made last year have started to drift apart from me and I see them h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterOct 11, 2016
2 points

Voice Conference This Saturday At 21:00 UTC Over On Discord (2016/10/15)

Voice Conference This Saturday At 21:00 UTC Over On Discord (2016/10/15) We're hosting a voice conference for /r/Stutter over on Discord this Saturday (the 15th) at 21:00 UTC. This gives us a chance ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2016
2 points

I'm 31 and worse than i ever was in my teens. It's due to how much I've isolated myself. During my teens with school and stuff I had no choice but to be somewhat social. It's good to read a success s...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationLoneliness & IsolationHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2016
2 points

It'd be nice if you could share your research results with me. Here's my story. I was, and always have been home-schooled. And no, it wasn't the co-op, Christian social homeschooling; it was hard wor...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterSep 4, 2016
10 points

Starting sixth form tomorrow...

Starting sixth form tomorrow... If you are unaware what sixth form is it is where a 16 year old goes after they finish school. Although you get more freedom and you only study the courses you choose t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2016
1 points

Heh, yeah, and that's not really a cure at all, it's a symptom. EDIT: Being silent, I mean. It's forced upon us, in this sense, which isn't curing anything (just removing us from a world we want to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2016
1 points

Wow that was some speech therapy. I took therapy in school all the way through high school but I honestly don't think it really helped much. I wish places like Reddit had existed when I was in school....

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2016
1 points

You are not alone in being alone. I too feel that sometimes. It is ok to feel this at times when you have designed your life to minimize social interactions. But recognize this quickly & try to ar...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2016
3 points

Without any meaningful connections with other people, which is the most important thing if life, it's hard to think like that. ...

Social & Relationships
Loneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2016
3 points

I hear you. I've also come to the point in my life where I realise that I've been wrong, oh so wrong, by avoiding social life at any cost. I used to think I was saving myself from constant and perpetu...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2016
2 points

I've been to a concert alone because it was for a band i really liked and no one else knew them. I enjoyed seeing them but the overall experience was pretty lonely. I think concerts are one of the wor...

Social & Relationships
Loneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2016
1 points

Hey there. I'm a bit of a lone wolf myself. With my work, I travel a lot so I end up doing things by my self sometimes. Going to a restaurant, show, movie, etc. I've gotten used to it. I do have a sma...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationDating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 28, 2016
22 points

Anyone completely alone?

Anyone completely alone? My entire life, I've been going through the the motions you're supposed to go through. Go to school, get good grades, go to university, land yourself a job. Everyone single on...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2016
3 points

I don't have a partner. I have nothing to fear except for you know the obvious things like crushing loneliness and all that but other than that I'm good. :^)...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJul 21, 2016
25 points

No one understands how we feel.

No one understands how we feel. That is so frustrating. I went to a local rock show tonight. Before the show everyone was outside shooting the shit while I was the only one inside because I can't conv...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2016
1 points

Never feel like you're struggling alone man. No one, stutterer or fluent, will be able to make a good impression on everyone. On the phone though, it's just some faceless asshole who its better to jus...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2016
2 points

Never feel like you're struggling alone man. No one, stutterer or fluent, will be able to make a good impression on everyone. On the phone though, it's just some faceless asshole who its better to jus...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2016
1 points

Stuttering has made me an incredibly cynical person. I do not connect with people that are not in my immediate family. My cynicism brought me to the realization that romantic relationships are a compl...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessDating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
2 points

Is it though? I dont know about you but I can directly attribute my depression and anxiety to stuttering. I can also confidentially say that it is the main reason why I am a loner and will never have ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2016
3 points

> There are plenty of jobs you can do with out having to talk. Sure, I'll do data entry for the rest of my life. Or maybe I would be lucky enough to find a job somewhere in a backroom loading boxe...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation