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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
2 points

Yes, initiating is a bit problematic, but not with my own family, friends, or even when starting a conversation with a patient. It’s frustrating that sometimes I struggle to even get my name, “hi,” or...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Loss of ControlAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

Your title mentions high pressure situations, but you probably would say that "hey siri" and greeting relatives aren't particularly high pressure. It sounds like its the initiation of speech that's ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Loss of ControlAnxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
3 points

Struggling with Stuttering in High-Pressure Situations – Need Advice

Struggling with Stuttering in High-Pressure Situations – Need Advice Hi everyone, I wanted to share my experience and get some advice. I often struggle with starting a conversation in certain situat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

I read a comment here not long ago that there was a guy who had a stutter +40 years and after an accident his stutter was gone. His theory was because he forgot he had a stutter. There is a hyphot...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringExperiential Association
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

I couldn’t tell you why but I can tell you I’m very similar in that when I’m more confident my speech is noticeably improved. Sounds like when you’re doing something you’re not super confident in (spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
3 points

I would say you should do the exchange. I got more confident in myself by forcing myself to talk (I studied abroad). And in new environment I know it is hard to introduce, get anxious. but people don...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnticipating StutteringIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

Exchange

Exchange I am very anxious, 2 months ago my school admitted me to a school exchange and I paid an advance of €250. I don't want to go because of my stutter and my difficulty in introducing myself, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
12 points

People stop talking just to listen to me, which makes me feel pressured to finish my sentence quickly

People stop talking just to listen to me, which makes me feel pressured to finish my sentence quickly It's supposed to be a good thing, right? The class is usually busy in themselves during lectures, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

Not caring about it actually dwarfs the anxiety that comes with stuttering so you can speak more fluent and also think/react better in the situation. But you should psychologically figure out how to d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

Wanting to say something but deciding not to because you know you will trip up getting the first word out...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
4 points

Only recently, after i had uncovered what i think the root cause of my stutter is* had it even crossed my mind. But yes, i wonder... i ponder... i dwell... i spiral (just a little). I mean, the stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringExperiential AssociationStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2025
4 points

It could be stress or that you are more self consicous about it now that you are older, and that might cause more blocks to happen. Sometimes the actual fear and anticipation of stuttering is what mak...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
2 points

How much THINKING goes into it ! Like , making calls to ppl you DONT know and then NOT calling them bc you think that u will stutter ! One thing I learned thou : trying is better than not !...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
2 points

The daily struggle to find a way to have the confidence to speak and express yourself. Personally I have always struggled introducing myself, my first name starts with a d(plosive) and I get stuck on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
6 points

Try talking off the cuff. Planning what I am going to say allows my brain to prepare to stutter. The most I will do is make an outline. Then you also don't anguish for months like if I catch myself ev...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
7 points

The anxiety that comes from having to “think” about every word I’m going to say and instantaneously switch to another word like a human thesaurus because I can feel a stutter or block coming on. Also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
11 points

Feeling particularly alone today.

Feeling particularly alone today. Im 16, trying really hard to socialize, and my social anxiety is getting lesser, to a degree. The problem is, i take such a long time to open up to people, and reall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
10 points

Yep, even going up to the shops has you planning over and over again the words to say, and yet you still can't say it when you get there! totally frustrating and gets you really down...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
14 points

How are your mornings?

How are your mornings? Today I woke up and started looking at Instagram stories. I felt anxious seeing all those situations, moments and women I would like to talk to, but I know that today I will als...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2025
1 points

Hey so this may sound really stupid but i have the same problem since like the age of four, i think? as i’ve read in your other posts about “knowing when you’re going to stutter” is a huge part which ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability+2 more